Are Your Desires Really Yours? How to Recognize and Reclaim What You Truly Want with Luke Burgis
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Are Your Desires Really Yours? How to Recognize and Reclaim What You Truly Want with Luke Burgis

In this episode, Luke Burgis explores the question, “Are your desires really yours?” and how to recognize and reclaim what you truly want. He discusses how to tell the difference between “thin desires (fleeting, imitated wants) and “thick desires” (the deeper longings that bring lasting fulfillment), and why discerning between the two can change the direction of your life. Luke also shares practices for uncovering your true hierarchy of values, creating alignment between what you want and who you want to be. Explore how to pivot from “I don’t want to” to “I do want to, I just don’t feel like it” and how to feed the desires that lead to meaning instead of comparison or regret. Exciting News!!! Coming in March, 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders! Key Takeaways: Exploration of the concept of mimetic desire and its origins in the work of René Girard. Discussion on how desires are often imitative and influenced by others rather than being inherently personal. The importance of discerning between beneficial and harmful desires in one’s life. The parable of the two wolves as a metaphor for the internal conflict between positive and negative desires. Differentiation between “thin desires” (fleeting and influenced by external factors) and “thick desires” (deeply rooted in personal values and identity). The role of self-reflection and narrative in understanding one’s desires and motivations. The significance of establishing a hierarchy of values to guide decision-making and desire cultivation. The impact of social interactions on shaping desires and the responsibility individuals have in influencing others. The concept of “stalking your greatest desire” as a means to align personal desires with one’s life mission. The importance of having a trusted partner for exploring and communicating desires, emphasizing the value of attentive listening If you enjoyed this conversation with Luke Burgis, check out these other episodes: How to Find Zest in Life with Dr. John Kaag Finding Zen in the Ordinary with Christopher Keevil Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The Beauty and Power of Friendship with Will Schwalbe

The Beauty and Power of Friendship with Will Schwalbe

In this episode, Will Schwalbe shares some of his insights and experiences about forming deep friendships in adulthood. He discusses his latest book about an unlikely friendship that formed years ago and explores how their lasting connection is so powerful. In this episode, you will be able to: Understand the lasting impact and deep connection of friendships Discover the power of finding shared values among the differences between friends Embrace the challenges when conflict arises among friends Grasp the healing power of vulnerability in strengthening relationships Learn the immense value of giving and receiving support in friendships To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Cope with Burnout with Emma Gannon

How to Cope with Burnout with Emma Gannon

In this episode, Emma Gannon offers a unique perspective on how to cope with burnout by embracing self-compassion. Her personal journey through burnout and the resulting year of introspection has equipped her with invaluable insights into prioritizing self-care and making meaningful life changes. With a focus on mental well-being and personal growth, Emma provides a refreshing and relatable voice in the realm of self-compassion strategies and burnout recovery. In this episode, you will be able to: Discover how mindfulness can transform your daily decisions a Uncover the powerful impact of self-compassion for overall well-being. Learn practical strategies for coping with burnout and reclaiming your energy and joy Find out how to infuse your life with joy by exploring hobbies outside of work Navigate the path to success and personal fulfillment with actionable insights To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Embrace Change for an Authentic Life with Najwa Zebian

How to Embrace Change for an Authentic Life with Najwa Zebian

In this episode, Najwa Zebian shares her profound understanding of how to embrace change for an authentic life. Her personal journey, marked by overcoming challenges and transforming pain into wisdom, inspires listeners to navigate life’s transitions with self-trust and compassion. In this episode, you will be able to: Embrace change to unlock authenticity and personal growth Overcome the fear of life transitions and thrive in uncertainty Build self-trust and leadership skills for a fulfilling life Navigate grief to find personal growth and inner strength Learn strategies for personal resilience and successful adaptation To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How AI Answers Life's Biggest Questions with Iain Thomas & Jasmine Wang

How AI Answers Life's Biggest Questions with Iain Thomas & Jasmine Wang

In this episode, Iain Thomas and Jasmine Wang discuss their work with artificial intelligence and how they used AI to answer life’s biggest questions. They explore the benefits and complexities of artificial intelligence and its unexpected human-like traits of large language models as well as the potential ethical implications. In this episode, you will be able to: Understand the future and potential of AI to revolutionize culture Explore how AI generated responses on love, connection, and the present moment Discover the influence of AI-generated content on the evolution of creative industries Embrace the humanness embedded in AI in responses to spirituality and human connection To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Be the Love You Seek with Dr. Nicole LePera

How to Be the Love You Seek with Dr. Nicole LePera

In this episode, Dr. Nicole LePera explores how to be the love you seek as she delves into the profound impact of emotional connection with oneself on fostering authentic relationships with others. She explores the interconnected nature of thoughts, emotions, and bodily experiences, providing valuable insights into the complexities of trusting oneself. Nicole emphasizes the importance of integrating knowledge and action for personal transformation and explains the role of the nervous system in decision-making and stress management. In this episode, you will be able to: Discover the power of building emotional connections with yourself to transform your life Uncover the impact of childhood trauma on adult relationships and gain insights into overcoming its influence Explore effective practices for developing heart consciousness and nurturing deeper self-awareness Learn how to differentiate intuition from trauma responses to make more mindful decisions Master strategies for expanding stress tolerance to navigate life’s challenges with resilience To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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You Might Also Like: ADHD Aha! from Understood.org

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Today we’re doing something a little different.  I am sharing an episode of another podcast.  It’s called ADHD Aha! And it’s hosted by Laura Key.  It includes candid stories from people who share the moment it clicked that they, or someone they know, has ADHD. I wanted to do this because I know from talking to our audience that ADHD is something that many of you are experiencing. I hope you give it a listen, and if it resonates, give ADHD Aha! Podcast a follow.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Understanding the Truth About Obesity and Weight Loss Drugs with Johann Hari

Understanding the Truth About Obesity and Weight Loss Drugs with Johann Hari

In this episode, Johann Hari explores the complexities of obesity and weight loss drugs. He dives into the seemingly simple relationship between our food choices and innate biological responses. Reflecting on his upbringing, shaped by a diet of processed and junk food, Johann’s journey is intertwined with scientific revelations. His research and personal experience offers a thought-provoking narrative on the impact of modern diets on our bodies and minds. In this episode, you will be able to: Understand the long-term impact of weight loss drugs on your health and well-being Explore the health risks associated with obesity and effective management strategies Uncover the role of GLP-1 receptor in appetite regulation and weight management Embrace body positivity and learn how to combat the stigma surrounding obesity Compare the pros and cons of bariatric surgery and weight loss drugs for effective weight management To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Unlock Your Inner Greatness with George Mumford

How to Unlock Your Inner Greatness with George Mumford

In this episode with George Mumford, we discuss how to unlock your inner greatness. Through his work with people from prestigious athletes to prisoners, George explores the surprising truths about mastering personal growth and self-awareness. You'll also discover ways to overcome self-limiting beliefs and learn to find balance and contentment in your life. In this episode, you will be able to: Master the art of self-awareness to unlock profound personal growth Overcome self-limiting beliefs and unleash your full potential Discover powerful strategies for reaching peak performance in all areas of life Learn to balance the pursuit of success with finding contentment in the present moment Harness the power of neuroplasticity and incremental improvement methods for lasting personal development To learn more, click here!   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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