Are Your Desires Really Yours? How to Recognize and Reclaim What You Truly Want with Luke Burgis
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Are Your Desires Really Yours? How to Recognize and Reclaim What You Truly Want with Luke Burgis

In this episode, Luke Burgis explores the question, “Are your desires really yours?” and how to recognize and reclaim what you truly want. He discusses how to tell the difference between “thin desires (fleeting, imitated wants) and “thick desires” (the deeper longings that bring lasting fulfillment), and why discerning between the two can change the direction of your life. Luke also shares practices for uncovering your true hierarchy of values, creating alignment between what you want and who you want to be. Explore how to pivot from “I don’t want to” to “I do want to, I just don’t feel like it” and how to feed the desires that lead to meaning instead of comparison or regret. Exciting News!!! Coming in March, 2026, my new book, How a Little Becomes a Lot: The Art of Small Changes for a More Meaningful Life is now available for pre-orders! Key Takeaways: Exploration of the concept of mimetic desire and its origins in the work of René Girard. Discussion on how desires are often imitative and influenced by others rather than being inherently personal. The importance of discerning between beneficial and harmful desires in one’s life. The parable of the two wolves as a metaphor for the internal conflict between positive and negative desires. Differentiation between “thin desires” (fleeting and influenced by external factors) and “thick desires” (deeply rooted in personal values and identity). The role of self-reflection and narrative in understanding one’s desires and motivations. The significance of establishing a hierarchy of values to guide decision-making and desire cultivation. The impact of social interactions on shaping desires and the responsibility individuals have in influencing others. The concept of “stalking your greatest desire” as a means to align personal desires with one’s life mission. The importance of having a trusted partner for exploring and communicating desires, emphasizing the value of attentive listening If you enjoyed this conversation with Luke Burgis, check out these other episodes: How to Find Zest in Life with Dr. John Kaag Finding Zen in the Ordinary with Christopher Keevil Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The Neuroscience Behind Achieving Your Goals with Steven Kotler

The Neuroscience Behind Achieving Your Goals with Steven Kotler

Steven Kotler’s journey towards understanding effective learning strategies took an unexpected turn during a period of profound illness. Struggling with his health challenges led him to delve into the concept of flow states, ultimately unraveling its transformative power. Through his personal ordeal and subsequent exploration, Steven not only gained insights into peak performance but also unearthed a universal truth about the human capacity for growth and resilience. His story serves as a compelling reminder of the untapped potential within each of us and the remarkable impact of effective learning strategies on our lives. In this episode, you will be able to: Unlock your peak performance potential and experience the power of flow states Cultivate passion and grit to fuel your journey to success and fulfillment Discover effective learning strategies to enhance your understanding and retention of new subjects Harness the role of attention and curiosity to dive deeper into your areas of interest Understand motivation and master the art of goal-setting for personal and professional growth To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Let Your Light Shine with Ali Smith, Atman Smith, and Andres Gonzales

How to Let Your Light Shine with Ali Smith, Atman Smith, and Andres Gonzales

Ali, Atman, and Andres shared their story of discovering yoga and how they were deeply influenced by their godfather’s profound journey. Their godfather, a former Black Panther, shifted his focus from revolutionary change to inner evolution, finding solace and purpose in yoga during the 1960s. This pivotal shift shaped the foundation of their upbringing, instilling a deep connection to yoga and its transformative power. Their father’s guidance to pursue entrepreneurship led to the formation of the Holistic Life Foundation, cementing their commitment to empowering individuals through yoga and mindfulness. In this episode, discover the profound impact of yoga on personal growth and societal change, illustrating the universal potential for self-discovery and positive transformation. In this episode, you will be able to: Cultivate mindfulness for emotional resilience Empower teachers and leaders with yoga and mindfulness for holistic support Explore the holistic benefits of yoga for overall well-being Harness the transformative power of pranayama for inner balance Embrace mantra meditation for healing and positive manifestation To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Find Peace and Balance in Managing Anxiety with Sarah Wilson

How to Find Peace and Balance in Managing Anxiety with Sarah Wilson

In this episode, Sarah Wilson expounds on how we can learn to create space, go slow, and appreciate the beauty of one’s struggles, rather than aiming for a quick fix. Coupled with the proper use of medication and therapy, these strategies can offer a comprehensive approach to learning how to find peace and balance in managing anxiety. In this episode, you will be able to: Understand the impact of anxiety on mental health and well-being Learn about the benefits and limitations of medication and therapy in managing mental health challenges Engage in a nuanced conversation about mental health, exploring its complexities and varied experiences Take responsibility for anxiety by exploring practical strategies such as slowing down Create space in anxiety management by discovering techniques for finding peace and balance in everyday life To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

18 Joulu 202350min

The Art of Letting Go and Getting Clear on Values with The Minimalists

The Art of Letting Go and Getting Clear on Values with The Minimalists

Joshua Fields Millburn and TK Coleman, known as The Minimalists, discuss the concept of letting go and personal empowerment. Joshua shares his personal journey of realizing the detrimental effects of consumerism and the pursuit of material possessions. As he lived the corporate dream with excess items, he felt stressed and anxious beneath the surface. This realization sparked a transformation, leading him to question how his life could be better with less. Through this conversation, you’ll discover the importance of intentional decision-making and the value of letting go of what is not important. In this episode, you will be able to: Define minimalism in the context and spirit of letting go Streamline your life for vitality and balance Embrace discomfort to fuel your personal evolution Unleash your best self through intentional actions Challenge your beliefs to make intentional, empowered decisions To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Follow Your Heart Path with Howard Martin

How to Follow Your Heart Path with Howard Martin

Howard Martin defines heart intelligence and how it is a critical aspect of our lives, raising us above problems and chaos, allowing us to tap into direct knowingness and surpass mediocrity. By incorporating heart intelligence into our daily lives, we unlock more holistic and intuitive ways of navigating the world around us. Learning to follow your hearth path empowers individuals and organizations alike, enabling us to make better decisions based on our values and contribute to more meaningful and fulfilling lives. In this episode, you will be able to: Discover the impact of heart intelligence on your daily life Understand heart rate variability and how it impacts your emotions Unlock the importance of making conscious choices in your life Connect with your authentic self through heart intelligence Harness the power of heart-centered living for personal growth To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Discovering Your Inner Resilience and Strength with Mark Nepo

Discovering Your Inner Resilience and Strength with Mark Nepo

Mark Nepo is a highly acclaimed author, poet, and spiritual guide who has gained significant recognition for his profound insights on faith in life and resilience. With a wealth of experience, Mark has dedicated his life to exploring the complexities of the human condition and offering guidance on navigating life’s challenges. His teachings on choice points and the power of conscious decision-making have resonated with countless individuals seeking a deeper understanding of themselves and the world around them. Through his books and teachings, Mark has established himself as a trusted authority in the realm of personal growth and transformation. In this conversation, you’ll discover how to cultivate resilience and unwavering faith in the face of life’s obstacles. In this episode, you will be able to: Uncover the path to embracing fear and discovering your authentic self Learn how to counteract life’s fast pace and embrace the power of reflection Discover the significance of choice points in navigating life’s challenges with strength and resilience Cultivate unwavering faith in life and enhance your resilience in the face of adversities Explore the art of maintaining porous boundaries in relationships for a healthier and more balanced life To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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BONUS!  Eric Zimmer on The Puzzler Podcast with AJ Jacobs!

BONUS! Eric Zimmer on The Puzzler Podcast with AJ Jacobs!

Special Bonus Episode! Eric joins his friend, AJ Jacobs, on his new podcast called "The Puzzler! "Finally, your daily puzzle fix—in audio form! Every day, in 10 minutes or less, New York Times bestselling author A.J. Jacobs and his celebrity guests will puzzle–and laugh–their way through new spins on old puzzle favorites, like anagrams and palindromes, as well as quirky originals such as “Ask Chat GPT” and audio rebuses.  Plus, Chief Puzzle Officer Greg Pliska joins A.J. each week to present new puzzles from the Puzzle Lab. And there’s a daily Extra Credit Puzzler for our Puzzlers at home. (Answers revealed in the following episode.)  Listen and Subscribe Here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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How to Manage Your Inner Critic and Social Anxiety with Ellen Hendriksen

How to Manage Your Inner Critic and Social Anxiety with Ellen Hendriksen

Ellen Hendriksen’s personal journey offers a refreshing perspective on how to manage social anxiety and the inner critic. Ellen’s insights into the inner workings of social anxiety, such as the damaging effects of avoidance and the critical role of the inner critic are incredibly powerful. In this episode, you’ll find actionable and practical strategies that are sure to empower anyone who struggles with social anxiety or an overly active inner critic! In this episode, you will be able to: Overcome social anxiety and thrive in social settings Challenge negative thoughts and transform your mindset Embrace emotions with self-compassion and find inner peace Create structure in social situations for confidence and ease Take initiative in conversations and learn to build strong connections. To learn more, click here! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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