Accidentally Squashing Your Partner's Excitement (When You're on Two Different Wavelengths in a Conversation): Episode 422

Accidentally Squashing Your Partner's Excitement (When You're on Two Different Wavelengths in a Conversation): Episode 422

Have you ever shared an idea or dream with your spouse, something that genuinely excited you, only to have the energy immediately flattened by practicality or fear? In this episode, we're unpacking a dynamic that quietly drains energy and connection in many marriages: when one partner is in enthusiastic, imaginative energy and the other instantly shifts into logic and control mode. We'll explore why this happens, what it reveals emotionally for each partner, and how to respond in a way that keeps the energy between you alive instead of shutting it down.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • The hidden psychology behind why partners "squash" enthusiasm (even with good intentions)

  • How to frame a conversation for your partner from the start, so you're on the same wavelength

  • Practical shifts that help you stay connected and engaged, even when you see things differently

  • Why joining in the energy doesn't mean agreeing to every idea

  • How this dynamic slowly erodes emotional intimacy if you don't adjust

If you've ever felt misunderstood for your excitement, or struggled to stay open when your spouse starts dreaming big, this conversation will help you both feel seen and stay on the same wavelength.

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Husbands and Wives Have This OPPOSING Marriage Goal and They Don't Realize It: Episode 364

Husbands and Wives Have This OPPOSING Marriage Goal and They Don't Realize It: Episode 364

Does it ever feel like you and your partner have different goals or even that your needs are conflicting with one another? This can be obvious when one partner is saying they need more quality time an...

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What Creates Emotional Connection & Intimacy: Episode 363

What Creates Emotional Connection & Intimacy: Episode 363

One of the most common questions we get is "how do we create more emotional connection" with each other. The most popular question is about repair, but this is in second place! This is a great questio...

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Defensiveness vs Gaslighting - What's the Difference & How to Stop Both: Episode 362

Defensiveness vs Gaslighting - What's the Difference & How to Stop Both: Episode 362

It's important for all of us to admit that we have defensive mechanisms and that we do get defensive with our partners at times. Let's allow ourselves some grace here. Many of you would probably relat...

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Navigating Make It or Break It Moments in Marriage: Episode 361

Navigating Make It or Break It Moments in Marriage: Episode 361

Today we explore the turning points where marriages either survive or fall apart, when they hit that "make it for break it" decision point. We've seen five couples end their relationships recently, on...

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How Stress Affects Your Marriage (Plus Ways to Better Cope & Stay Connected): Episode 360

How Stress Affects Your Marriage (Plus Ways to Better Cope & Stay Connected): Episode 360

How would you rate the amount of stress in your life right now? We all know that some stress is good stress and that it's a part of life. Its commonly known that stress plays a major role in physical,...

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Is This a ME Thing or a WE Thing? Distinguishing Personal Growth from Relationship Growth: Episode 359

Is This a ME Thing or a WE Thing? Distinguishing Personal Growth from Relationship Growth: Episode 359

When there is tension or an upset in your marriage, it's easy to point the finger at your partner as the source of the discomfort. But this often leads to further conflict. It also does not address th...

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Wives Are Facing this Inner-Challenge and it's Affecting Marriages: Episode 358

Wives Are Facing this Inner-Challenge and it's Affecting Marriages: Episode 358

Last week's episode focused on husbands was a huge hit, so this week we're focusing on what inner-challenge wives are struggling with and how it's affecting marriages. In this episode, we dive into t...

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Husbands Are Facing this Inner-Challenge and it's Affecting Marriages: Episode 357

Husbands Are Facing this Inner-Challenge and it's Affecting Marriages: Episode 357

Men are facing an inner-challenge that is also affecting the marriage. For men to feel a sense of meaning, empowerment, responsibility, value, and achievement they have to show up in the eternal world...

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