Accidentally Squashing Your Partner's Excitement (When You're on Two Different Wavelengths in a Conversation): Episode 422

Accidentally Squashing Your Partner's Excitement (When You're on Two Different Wavelengths in a Conversation): Episode 422

Have you ever shared an idea or dream with your spouse, something that genuinely excited you, only to have the energy immediately flattened by practicality or fear? In this episode, we're unpacking a dynamic that quietly drains energy and connection in many marriages: when one partner is in enthusiastic, imaginative energy and the other instantly shifts into logic and control mode. We'll explore why this happens, what it reveals emotionally for each partner, and how to respond in a way that keeps the energy between you alive instead of shutting it down.

In this episode you'll hear:

  • The hidden psychology behind why partners "squash" enthusiasm (even with good intentions)

  • How to frame a conversation for your partner from the start, so you're on the same wavelength

  • Practical shifts that help you stay connected and engaged, even when you see things differently

  • Why joining in the energy doesn't mean agreeing to every idea

  • How this dynamic slowly erodes emotional intimacy if you don't adjust

If you've ever felt misunderstood for your excitement, or struggled to stay open when your spouse starts dreaming big, this conversation will help you both feel seen and stay on the same wavelength.

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3 Mistakes Women Make in Marriage: Episode 332

3 Mistakes Women Make in Marriage: Episode 332

From the thousands of coaching sessions, DMs, and emails that we receive, we tend to see themes come up in marriage. You would be surprised to learn how common certain topics are for couples, that all...

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3 Mistakes Men Make in Marriage: Episode 331

3 Mistakes Men Make in Marriage: Episode 331

From the thousands of coaching sessions, DMs, and emails that we receive, we tend to see themes come up in marriage. You would be surprised to learn how common certain topics are for couples, that all...

20 Helmi 202417min

Not Everything Needs to Be A Thing: Discerning Between Tension & a True Issue in Marriage: Episode 330

Not Everything Needs to Be A Thing: Discerning Between Tension & a True Issue in Marriage: Episode 330

The scenario is that your partner makes a comment, you sense they are a little irritated. They may very well have a frustration but have expressed it with a mild (level 2) upset. Yet you are not in a ...

13 Helmi 202430min

The Bare Minimum to Expect in a Marriage (from yourself): Episode 329

The Bare Minimum to Expect in a Marriage (from yourself): Episode 329

What is the bare minimum to expect in a marriage? You likely read that question and think about your expectations about your partner… However this is actually about what to expect from yourself! Ther...

7 Helmi 202416min

The '7 Year Itch' When Marriage Dissatisfaction Peaks & What You Can Do About It (At Any Point): Episode 328

The '7 Year Itch' When Marriage Dissatisfaction Peaks & What You Can Do About It (At Any Point): Episode 328

You have heard about the "7 Year Itch" in a marriage. Though that was the name of a Marilyn Monroe movie in 1955, studies have shown that a couples satisfaction in marriage hits a low around 10 years ...

30 Tammi 202430min

Attachment Styles Part 2: Overcoming Avoidant and Anxious Pasts and Tendencies: Episode 327

Attachment Styles Part 2: Overcoming Avoidant and Anxious Pasts and Tendencies: Episode 327

Are attachment styles fixed? This is the essence of all the questions and messages we received after last week's episode on attachment style, behaviors, and needs. This required a Part 2 episode this ...

23 Tammi 202433min

Understand Your Attachment Styles, Needs, and Behaviors: Episode 326

Understand Your Attachment Styles, Needs, and Behaviors: Episode 326

Attachment is a key term and principle for relationships and refers to the way in which you bond and connect with your partner. The theory of Attachment Style has become much more popular in recent ye...

16 Tammi 202430min

Passion, Closeness, and Commitment: Maintaining the 3 Components of Love in Marriage: Episode 325

Passion, Closeness, and Commitment: Maintaining the 3 Components of Love in Marriage: Episode 325

What is Love in a very practical sense? We hear people say "we fell in love" or "we fell out of love"... so what is causing this experience of love? Or why do couples start to feel more like roommates...

9 Tammi 202435min

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