99: *3 avoidant* core wounds you NEED to know why he shut downs (it's not personal)

99: *3 avoidant* core wounds you NEED to know why he shut downs (it's not personal)

🖤 FREE 3min Attachment Style QUIZ

https://themarriagecoach.outgrow.us/attachmentstyle3mquiz

Have you ever felt confused, frustrated, or even hurt because your partner seems distant, cancels plans, or shuts down emotionally — even when you know they care? 🖤✨

In this episode, we dive into what really drives avoidant behavior. Why do some people pull away the moment things feel too close? Why do they seem to love you but still keep their distance?

You’ll get insights into the hidden fears and early experiences that shape how avoidants handle intimacy, emotions, and closeness.. and how you can respond in ways that stop the cycle of frustration and overthinking.

💎 By the end, you’ll start noticing patterns you never saw before, feel less like you’re doing something “wrong,” and understand how your reactions can either calm or trigger their core fears.

CHAPTERS:

00:00 Understanding the Avoidant Attachments Style: Core wounds 02:47 Core wound 01: I am trapped 06:41 Core Wound 02: I am Bad (Defective) 11:29 Core wound 03: I am losing control 15:40 Quick Summary 16:32 Homework for the Anxious Attachment Partner: ✨📝

🖤 ON SALE: How to Stop OVERTHINKING Your Relationship in 4 Steps

(With Your Avoidant Partner)

https://www.julanoellecom/overthinkingcourse

🖤 ON SALE: How to STOP needing so much reassurance via text

(because safety comes from within, and you chasing or not settling boundary is the thing that give you anxiety, NOT a delayed text.)

https://www.julanoelle.com/textanxiety

1:1 Coaching Offers (via video calls or whatsapp)

https://tr.ee/PInPmy

Free Find your ANXIOUS Archetype NOW (to feel calmer)

https://tr.ee/9s05-v9M30

Free: Anxious to Secure Checklist

https://www.julanoelle.com/anxioustosecurechecklist

Free Quiz: Find your top 2 Relationship needs

(before your subconscious will sabotage you by meeting it in unhealthy ways, through like overthinking, clinging too hard to chasing)

https://themarriagecoach.outgrow.us/needs

#avoidantattachment #anxiousavoidantrelationship #emotionalsafety

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135: Your avoidant partner doesn’t prioritise you…UNLESS you do THIS.

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134: 5 signs you’re in a toxic cycle with a dismissive avoidant partner (and how to break it)

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133: How to break the anxious avoidant cycle (without chasing HIM))

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132: NEVER say this to an avoidant partner if you have anxious attachment (it will trigger him into shutdown))

132: NEVER say this to an avoidant partner if you have anxious attachment (it will trigger him into shutdown))

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131: Hills I will DIE on as someone who healed their anxious attachment…and become secure

131: Hills I will DIE on as someone who healed their anxious attachment…and become secure

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130: you think your AVOIDANT is pulling away… but these 5 signs say he’s trying

130: you think your AVOIDANT is pulling away… but these 5 signs say he’s trying

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129: *3 signs* your avoidant partner is becoming SECURE (even if they still pull away)

129: *3 signs* your avoidant partner is becoming SECURE (even if they still pull away)

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128: the UGLY truth why you attract avoidant people, men, friends (they mirror you!)

128: the UGLY truth why you attract avoidant people, men, friends (they mirror you!)

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