#34 What Relationship Patterns Are Holding You Back: with Jacqueline Stevens

Why you attract the same partners, how triggers reveal your needs, and how to build secure, juicy relationships. A must-listen for your love evolution.

Whether you're single, married, in a situationship, or still recovering from your last “What are we?” meltdown—this episode will give you some love. Today, we sit down with Yale-certified soul-alignment and transformational relationship coach Jacqueline “Jax” Stevens, who breaks down the energetic and subconscious patterns shaping our love lives.

We dive into the big questions: Why do I keep attracting the same type of person? Why are my relationship triggers on repeat? And is it always my parents’ fault?

Jax explains how attachment styles, childhood wounds, and energetic patterns shape every relationship we enter—romantic and platonic. She also reveals how feminine energy, intuition, and surrender play major roles in the relationships we call in.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why your soul calls in the same patterns
• How your triggers reveal your unmet needs
• How to shift from survival-mode relationships into thriving, interdependent ones
• Why we need to be “greedy” (in the best way) when it comes to receiving love
• How to attract deeper, more meaningful relationships starting today

Get ready to make your relationships delicious again.

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00:00 Evolving Through Relationships

02:43 Understanding Relationships as part of a Spiritual Journey

06:47 Attachment Styles and Their Impact

12:54 Attracting Similar Patterns in Relationships

17:42 Healing Through Triggers

22:41 Understanding the Second Arrow Triggers

24:47 Family Dynamics and Personal Triggers

25:40 Impact of Cultural Narratives on Women in Relationships

30:09 The Shift Towards Interdependent Relationships

32:37 Do We Salvage the Relationship?

34:18 Creating Deeper, More Meaningful Relationships

36:57 Be Greedy in Your Relationship

40:11 Self Reflection

43:43 Tarot Card For the Week

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