Jay & Radhi Talk About Icks vs. Red Flags (How to ACTUALLY Know the Difference)
A Really Good Cry22 Marras 2025

Jay & Radhi Talk About Icks vs. Red Flags (How to ACTUALLY Know the Difference)

In this fun and unfiltered episode, Jay and Radhi dive into the world of “icks,” those oddly specific little turn-offs that make us cringe for reasons we can’t quite explain. From baby voices and socks with sandals to the blurry line between confidence and cockiness, they laugh their way through the most random dating deal-breakers and what they secretly reveal about us. Amid the jokes, they slip in a few truth bombs too, like how we sometimes use icks to avoid real vulnerability. It’s light, hilarious, and uncomfortably relatable, because honestly, we’ve all had an ick… and we’ve definitely been someone else’s.

In this episode, you'll learn:

How to Tell the Difference Between an Ick and a Red Flag

How to Communicate Honestly About What Bothers You

How to Recognize When You’re Using an Ick as an Excuse

How to Appreciate Imperfections in the People You Love

It’s easy to get caught up in small things that bother us, but true connection isn’t built on perfection, it’s built on patience, humor, and understanding. Everyone has quirks, and sometimes those quirks are what make relationships real.

With Love and Gratitude,

Jay Shetty

What We Discuss:

00:00 Intro

00:19 What is an Ick?

03:07 The Funniest Icks

05:21 How Seriously Should People Take Icks?

09:39 Can You Get Over an Ick?

12:55 Personal Hygiene is Important

14:26 Arrogance Versus Confidence

15:40 Childishness and Immaturity

17:25 Is It Just Poor Communication?

21:43 Top 5 Icks Men have About Women

23:38 The Guy with a List (@wyszkay)

Episode Resources:

Radhi Devlukia | Website

Radhi Devlukia | YouTube

Radhi Devlukia | Instagram

Radhi Devlukia | Facebook

Radhi Devlukia | TikTok

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