On Purpose with Jay Shetty

In the journey of self-discovery, we often find ourselves grappling with the nagging question: "Am I enough?" Life's struggles can weigh heavily on our hearts, especially when we feel inadequate. But fear not, today we will look deep into building self-esteem and self-confidence. In the face of doubt and self-limiting beliefs, we shall uncover four distinct types of self-worth that shape our perception of ourselves. Everything we have achieved may seem meaningless at times, however, through this pivotal moment of awakening, we shall uncover the true essence of our purpose and redefine our paths with newfound meaning. As we navigate life, we will encounter moments of hesitation and indecision, fearing the uncertainty of future steps. Together, we shall cultivate the courage to take that vital first step towards growth and fulfillment. In this episode, you'll learn: The type of mindset we should avoid The reason why our confidence is low How to improve your self-worth and self-esteem How to get out of the the struggles that limit you Let's join hands as we take steps towards stepping forth into the world with renewed purpose and self-assurance. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:02 When you’re stuck with feeling like you aren’t enough, how do you deal with it? 05:38 Life is a struggle especially when you think you aren’t enough 10:01 What happens when you realize everything you’ve done in life is useless? 14:25 Type #1: The sense of security and safety is such an important part of our self-worth 15:53 Type #2: When you know your values, it's easier for you to make decisions. 17:06 Type #3: The self-confidence we experience through competence, a skill, an ability that we have 18:54 Type #4: Do you have a place or space that you feel comfortable and you belong to? 22:48 This is one of the reasons why so many struggle so much 24:29 We keep thinking about taking future steps but we never take the first step 26:20 Here’s how you can do to help boost your self confidence See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

4 Elo 202337min

In this very special episode, it is my great honor to be invited to the White House for a rare and very personal interview with President Joe Biden. We will witness The President reflecting on his earliest childhood memories that have indelibly shaped his path. We pause and contemplate the significance of reaching out to those facing tough times, for every compassionate connection has the power to uplift and heal. The conversation goes deep as we delve into the profound realm of family, the cornerstone of existence, and discover how to cherish and prioritize those who matter most; and the art of decision-making and preparation, as you learn to navigate life's intricate choices with clarity and mindfulness. In this interview, you'll learn: The strength one can draw from having a supportive family How to stand up for yourself and for others How to help someone that is grieving How to balance the weight of decision-making The impact of being present in the most challenging times In this episode we embrace the transformative power of love, compassion, and purposeful connection, as we unlock the treasures of our past and present. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:17 What is your earliest childhood memory that has defined what you have become today? 10:55 When you see people who are going through some tough times, it does matter when you reach out 12:58 How do you let your children and the people that matter to you know that they are important people in your life? 17:35 Family is the most important asset in life. How do you prioritize yours? 21:17 How do you process decision-making? How do you prepare for it? 27:10 How do you assess a person’s motivation so we can get to the root of it? 29:59 The President on Final Five 39:10 The story behind the pictures that The President holds dear Episode Resources: President Joe Biden | Bio President Joe Biden | YouTube President Joe Biden | InstagramSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

31 Heinä 202341min

Have you ever found yourself surrounded by negative and toxic people, draining your energy and hindering your growth? Are you getting tired of having to deal with them all the time? Find out how to break free from the shackles of toxicity and cultivate a life filled with positivity, purpose, and meaningful connections. Today, we will look deep into the realm of toxic relationships, toxic workplaces, and the detrimental effects they can have on our well-being. Learn practical ways to establish healthy parameters and constraints in various areas of your life, find the wisdom of accepting people as they are and focusing on your own growth and well-being, and gain insights into fostering healthier dynamics through structured approaches. We can also learn how this practice can contribute to greater self-awareness and personal growth and empowering techniques to shift your focus and energy towards positive influences and experiences. In this episode, you'll learn: How to set boundaries at work How to stop trying to fix others' flaws How to start creating systems that work for you The practice of being more empathetic to others How to minimize toxic people's impact in your life With the wisdom of these transformative strategies, we can navigate life's challenges with grace and embrace the path to greater well-being and fulfillment. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:47 How do we deal with negative and toxic people in our lives? 04:44 Many people feel alone even when they are surrounded by friends and family? 06:16 Do you have a toxic workplace? How many people do you know are working in one? 08:20 What is toxic leadership? Is this the main reason why employees leave their company? 10:41 Why do people feel like they’re in a poorly designed job? 15:53 Strategy #1: Set boundaries by setting parameters and constraints 18:03 Strategy #2: The 75/25 rule is when you spend 75% of your time and focus on people who lift you up, and the remaining 25% with people out of necessity 20:11 Strategy #3: We don’t need to fix the negative and toxic people in our life 21:39 Strategy #4: Systems are incredible ways of avoiding emotional baggage in an organization, in a team, and even in a relationship 23:33 Strategy #5: Create policies and agreements with yourself 26:14 Strategy #6: Notice where this trait comes from for them and try to understand it better 27:29 Strategy #7: Often, the trait you don't like in someone, it's a trait that you possess somewhere deep down inside 28:44 Strategy #8: Don’t amplify their presenceSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

28 Heinä 202337min

Have you ever had a brilliant idea or solution, only to find resistance when trying to implement it? In this enlightening episode, we welcome a visionary leader who empowers companies to create a backbone for modern financial markets worldwide and revolutionize our take on science and modern medicine. Today, I welcome Mike Milken, who has been uniquely successful in creating value, whether measured in lives saved (Fortune magazine called him “The Man Who Changed Medicine”), students inspired (Forbes said he is an education visionary), or jobs created. Beginning in 1969, he and his colleagues financed thousands of companies that collectively created millions of jobs. Join us as we explore the journey of turning dreams into reality, despite the initial challenges and obstacles. In the face of life-threatening illness, what will you choose to focus on? Together, we delve into the realm of cancer research and the importance of providing support to drive groundbreaking advancements, uncover the fascinating world of gut health and the profound impact it has on our immunity, the profound connection between personal health and the well-being of the world we inhabit, and we ponder whether laboratory-grown food is a sustainable, long-term change for the betterment of our planet. Now, envision a future where pure, uncontaminated food can be created - how would this impact our lives and the world around us? In this interview with Mike Milken, you'll learn: How science has evolved over the years The years of scientific research on cancer treatment and other illnesses The importance of organic food intake How we can be more proactive in taking care of our health How impactful investors are in financing economic and science based companies Tune in on this thought-provoking journey as we unlock the wisdom and potential to create positive change in ourselves and the world. Let us embrace our innate ability to envision and manifest a healthier, harmonious future for all. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:35 “Just because you had a solution doesn’t mean that people will adopt it.” 04:17 Empowering companies financially to create a backbone for the modern financial markets around the world 10:08 It was an idea, it was a dream, but it wasn’t a reality yet 16:47 If you’re true to yourself and you know the issues, you can restart your life with a different path 23:19 Revenge and bitterness are unproductive emotions, they become your prison 26:13 What do you focus on when you encounter a life threatening illness? 37:08 Providing support for cancer research and convincing people to help with the research 44:57 The evolution of intensive research on gut health and how our immunity develops in accordance to the environment you live in 53:30 What will you do if you can cure your disease in your own lifetime? 57:58 Would you eat food grown in a laboratory? Is this a substantial long-term change? 01:00:46 Your immune system is smarter than all the scientists in the world, but something in your body is turning it off 01:06:17 A healthy human makes a healthy planet. How do we attain this? 01:11:22 What will you do when you have the ability to create pure food and not contaminate the planet? 01:16:10 Mike on Final Five Episode Resources: https://milkeninstitute.org/ https://www.mikemilken.com/ https://www.mff.org/ Faster Cures: Accelerating the Future of HealthSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

24 Heinä 20231h 22min

Are you often plagued by anxious and worrying thoughts, feeling uncertain about how to tackle them? Have you recently experienced the weight of anxiety? How did it impact your day-to-day life? Welcome to the On Purpose podcast! Today, we will embark on a discovery to master the art of working through anxiety and embracing a more serene mind. Let's discover the power of setting intentions with your first and last thoughts of the day, the sacred practice of breathwork to shift the rhythm of your life, and the captivating world of scents and fragrances, offering transformative solace. Moreover, there is immerse power in visualization to draw out genuine emotions and the therapeutic release through journaling to transform worries into clarity. In this episode, you'll learn: How anxious thoughts can impact your daily activities The action steps to reset your mindset How to master the flow your thoughts The different ways to turn anxiousness into positive actions Join us on this soul-stirring episode to nurture a tranquil and focused mind, and cultivate a sanctuary of peace and wisdom within yourself. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:22 A lot of us often have anxious and worry thoughts yet we don’t always have a gameplan to work through them 07:09 Have you recently experienced feeling anxious? What was your experience like? 09:56 Step #1: How do you need to master your first and last thought of the day? 13:49 Step #2: When you change the pace of your breath, you change the pace of your life. 18:06 Step #3: The power of scents and fragrances can transform how you feel 20:25 Step #4: Listening to one of your favorite songs or music may be a great short-term way of dealing with stress 21:32 Step #5: When you live something out in a visualization, it allows you to feel the emotions 26:04 Step #6: Get it out of your head and write it onto a page 27:21 Step #7: Read and listen about the things that you’re scared about See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

21 Heinä 202335min

Do you find yourself held back by fear and uncertainty? Are you struggling with the challenges of being on your own in today's world? If it's a yes, then you have found the right spot. I am so happy to welcome my guest for today, Nessa Barrett. After being named as one of Billboard’s “21 Under 21” twice and People Magazine’s “Emerging Artist List” — Nessa Barrett has gone on to accumulate more than 1.4 billion global streams to date. Nessa opens up about her current struggle with loneliness, mental health, and the damaging effects of societal perceptions. We will hear her deep thoughts and meaningful words about navigating difficult breakups, recovering from codependency, and finding self-love amidst self-criticism. We will uncover the transformative power of love, both for ourselves and others. Through our thought-provoking discussions and her inspiring stories, Nessa continues to explore the healing potential of music, the significance of connection and support, and the transformative act of creating a burn box. In this conversation with Nessa Barrett, you will learn: How to deal with fear, uncertainty, and doubt The importance of having the right people and proper support How to be more self-aware when feeling alone How to push forward when you're mentally drained Bring awareness to eating disorders and other metal health issues The power of self-love and promote self value How to stop being too critical towards yourself Together, we will empower you to embrace your journey, cultivate self-love, and find strength in vulnerability. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:16 These days, what makes being a teenager so hard? What makes it difficult to be young today? 02:35 How do you keep going when fear is shackling you? 05:25 How do you turn struggles, not fitting in, and bullying into your motivation to become better? 07:24 Is it possible to reconnect with your parents even after the familial ties are broken? 09:42 Loneliness is a battle we all struggle with, and not many people see how you’re struggling with it 12:49 Would you rather get stressed from challenges and issues of doing something you love to do, then get stressed over something that’s making you unhappy? 14:25 Mental health struggles are real and personal, and not everyone is able to deal with it in a positive light 22:11 The damaging effects of the common perception towards people with an eating disorder 28:50 What is difference between a public and private breakup 33:01 How did you come up with the eight stages of a breakup? 34:20 What’s the hardest stage of going through a difficult breakup? 36:28 How do you recover from codependency when your relationship ends? 38:09 Love is such a strong feeling and it stays with you even after you’re not with that person 40:24 Loving yourself first is an act we often overlook and this is why we all need to practice acts of self-love more often 43:54 We are the worst critics of ourselves, so how do we find things that could make us love ourselves more? 48:03 What is a burn box? How can you bond more with the people you connect with? 51:41 How do you use music to be the voice for the voiceless? 54:36 Why do we need to be vocal, honest, open, and vulnerable to the people that give us support? 58:40 Nessa on Final Five Episode Resources: Nessa Barrett | Instagram Nessa Barrett | YouTube Nessa Barrett | TikTok Nessa Barrett | SoundcloudSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

17 Heinä 20231h 9min

Have you ever experienced envy or jealousy, those emotions that arise when we compare ourselves to others? What is the difference between these two emotions, and how can we navigate them in our lives? Welcome to the On Purpose podcast, and today we will look deep into the intricacies of envy and jealousy, and discover the three transformative steps to make any change in our lives. Let’s talk about why do we feel jealous or envious when we find ourselves going through struggles while others seem to have an easier path, why do we desire what others possess, how these feelings make us feel satisfaction from others' unhappiness or feel left out. Through reflection and introspection, we uncover the path towards personal growth and develop a mindset of compassion, gratitude, and inclusivity. In this episode, you'll learn: The different types of jealousy and envy How can we identify the signs How do we shift our mindset How to turn jealousy and envy into admiration Prepare to embark on a journey of self-discovery, understanding, and transformation as we learn to embrace our own path and celebrate the journeys of others. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 03:17 Who doesn’t feel envy or jealousy in some way to someone? 10:43 There is a difference between jealousy and envy. What differentiates them? 12:27 Here are the three steps to make any change in your life 14:09 Type #1: You are going through something but others aren’t. You get jealous because their life is easy 17:36 How do you zoom out to bring your focus away from what’s stressing you out? 19:04 Type #2: We want what other people have 25:56 Find out more about people you know less about and turn it into admiration 26:07 Type #3: Becoming happy that others are down or unhappy 31:59 Type #4: Feeling upset of being left outSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

14 Heinä 202345min

Are you ready to embark on a transformative journey filled with inspiring stories and profound insights? Join me in this enlightening episode where my guest and I tap into a wide range of topics that will leave you with a deeper understanding of life, personal growth, and finding true happiness. Today, I am joined by Tom Holland, widely known for his portrayal of the Marvel superhero Spider-Man in the Marvel Cinematic Universe. Beyond acting, Tom Holland is known for his friendly and charismatic personality, often delighting fans with his playful interactions and energetic interviews. Have you ever wondered about the value of opinions from the people you truly care about? Discover the profound lessons we can learn from those who have impacted our lives and how their guidance can shape our journey. In a world where many of us struggle with living a false version of ourselves, let us explore the strategies to break free from societal pressures and embrace your authentic self, finding the peace and fulfillment you truly deserve. We challenge stereotypes as we uncover the beauty of embracing diverse interests, exploring the connection between physical activity and mental well-being, walking away from certain situations that no longer serve you, and learn the valuable lessons on self-acceptance and mindfulness, and discover the transformative power of connecting with nature. This episode was recorded at Soho House Dean Street In this episode with Tom Holland, you'll learn: How a solid family foundation shapes our childhood How to be resilient when facing numerous challenges The importance of taking care of our mental health How to embrace our own uniqueness How to channel our emotions in constructive ways Find alternatives to avoid making bad decisions Walk away from situations that don't serve our purpose How to cheer for someone to never give up Learn to break free from stereotypes by embracing your authenticity. With Love and Gratitude, Jay Shetty What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:46 Growing up in a family with a solid foundation and living the best childhood 06:18 Finding value in the opinions of people you care about and the lessons we can learn from them 08:19 When you see someone who never gives up and continues to work hard, what would you do? 09:32 How to stop living a false version of your life and take care of your mental health 14:24 Diagnosed with dyslexia at an early age and finding a way to overcome the challenges that comes with it 16:17 Acting started as a hobby turned into a beloved creative work 18:34 Being that kid who plays rugby but also attends a dancing class 25:05 Have you thought about releasing anger through sports training like boxing? 30:46 Recognizing that drinking can become a problem and finding the strength to control the urge to drink 41:44 The beauty of being alcohol-free and still have fun with the people around you 45:20 What would you do when you meet a person who is truly at peace with who they are? 49:20 Reconnecting with nature and finding yourself in these nature trips 52:39 Would you love to attend a class about life and how to live on a daily basis? 57:45 Separating your personal emotions and your work emotions to keep yourself mentally healthy 01:02:57 The challenges of relocating in a new place and the intention behind the move 01:09:27 Would you rely on your inner instinct in making a decision? 01:15:35 Sometimes walking out of certain situations can be beneficial for you 01:19:56 If you’re having a bad day, do you play golf? 01:23:45 Have you heard of living a no proof life? Tom tells us how to be more present in these moments 01:36:35 How humility plays a role in how one handles loses and distractions 01:40:31 Let’s talk about sports 01:44:52 Tom on Final Five Episode Resources: Tom Holland | Instagram Tom Holland | TwitterSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

10 Heinä 20231h 54min