Handing the Shame Back

Supporters sometimes don't set limits or boundaries with Survivors, but although they are well meaning; the effect can have a negative impact on the relationship. Have a quick listen as to why this is...

1 Helmi 20231min

This short interview discusses my abuse, and looks at the impact it had. We lightly touch on conviction rates in south africa and NZ. HELP NZ Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, suppor...

29 Tammi 202318min

Meet Penny: Married to a Survivor called Todd She shares what works for them in managing the impact child sexual abuse has in their lives. She suggests that communicating their way through it really w...

26 Tammi 202351min

This is a short introduction to the year and what is happening with Handing the Shame Back. Including introducing Events: 1. Speaking events 2. Walk/Run for our charity in NZ HELP NZ Sexual Harm ...

23 Tammi 20234min

Welcome to our very first interview with a "Supporter" of a Survivor. Lee is an ex wife of one, and shares the experiences of navigating the impact her husband being abused and not recognising he need...

19 Tammi 202349min

Handing The Shame Back is doing its first charity held event. For those not familiar Round the bays charity fun run or walk is held in NZ annually and is a great way to raise money for our foundation....

17 Tammi 20232min

Doubt is hard for us as survivors and can show up unexpectedly at times. There are many reasons why this is a core feature of our lives, not the least being we had to doubt our own instinct as the abu...

15 Tammi 20236min

This is actually dedicated to the person supporting the survivor. Please watch carefully and hopefully you will gain a few tips in there. If you are interested in any coaching from gloria please emai...

14 Tammi 20231min