Why Arguing With a Narcissist Never Works - and What Helps | Epi 126
In this conversation, Gordon Brewer and I meet up again on his channel to explore what actually creates movement in narcissistic relationships—especially when traditional approaches like arguing, expl...
4 Helmi 26min
Borderline vs Narcissistic Personality: Behind the Scenes | Epi 125
In this behind-the-scenes episode, I take you inside my clinical thinking as I explore how the same behaviors—withdrawal, silence, or disengagement—can signal very different dynamics in narcissistic v...
31 Tammi 25min
Are You Losing Yourself in a Narcissistic Relationship? What It Really Means |Epi 124
In this conversation, Gordon Brewer and I delve into the complexities of narcissistic dynamics in relationships. We explore how these dynamics manifest, the power imbalances involved, and the challeng...
28 Tammi 30min
Why Relationships Feel So Intense with Borderline Traits: Behind the Scenes | Epi 123
In this behind-the-scenes episode, I take you inside my clinical thinking as I explore what actually drives borderline emotional dysregulation. We look at how failures in internal holding and object c...
24 Tammi 24min
Was Any of It Real? Untangling the Illusion After Narcissistic Abuse | Epi 122
In this episode, we go deep into the psychological aftermath of narcissistic abuse—where idealization turns into confusion, connection becomes captivity, and the question “Was any of it real?” becomes...
21 Tammi 24min
What does BPD mean? How Do I Know if Someone is Borderline? Behind the Scenes | Epi 119
In this behind-the-scenes episode, we explore what “borderline” really means beneath the chaos — diving into object constancy, the fragile inner world shaped by early deprivation, and why emotions can...
17 Tammi 24min
How I Fell for a Narcissist When I Was Most Vulnerable| Epi 120
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Kerry McAvoy—clinician, author, and survivor of a deeply deceptive narcissistic relationship. She takes us inside the psychological pull that kept her bonded to so...
14 Tammi 31min
Understanding Narcissistic and Borderline Personality Dynamics - Behind the Scenes | Epi 121
In this episode, I take you behind the scenes as I prepare for the class I teach on personality dynamics. Instead of a polished lecture, you’ll hear my real-time thinking — how borderline and narcissi...
10 Tammi 24min
