102 How to find, create, and enjoy non-monogamous community with guest expert Libby Sinback
Libby Sinback, from Making Polyamory Work joins Joli for a conversation about one of the BEST parts of shifting from monogamy to non-monogamy: community that supports your authentic self. More connect...
4 Maalis 20231h 15min
101 Three ways of being polyamorous
Is polyamory something innate in you, like an orientation? Is it a practice? A philosophy? A mindset? An identity? A choice? Being able to describe your approach to polyamory makes it easier to conne...
25 Helmi 202351min
100 Finding relationship happiness through creative projects
It's our 100th episode of Playing with Fire! This podcast was intended to be 13 episodes to cover each chapter of Joli's first book... and here we are with 100 episodes in and feeling more excited abo...
18 Helmi 202338min
99 Balancing individuation & secure attachment with Polysecure author Jessica Fern
It's normal to want your relationship to feel secure. It's normal to want to individuate. It's normal to want to explore what life can look like beyond the constraints of default monogamy. But how do ...
11 Helmi 202354min
98 You're *too much*
Joli here- how many times have you heard one of these gems? You're a lot. You're intimidating. You're an energizer bunny. You're hyper-productive. You must never rest. You're just too much. Tel...
4 Helmi 202336min
97 Jealousy and sexual arousal: getting off on the green-eyed monster!
Does the thought of your partner being with someone else make you...hot as hell? You aren't alone. Though jealousy is often thought of as the LAST thing anyone would want in their life, that's not t...
28 Tammi 202340min
96 Which is better: To open from the start or to establish couplehood first?
Seeking open relationship bliss? Great. Us too. And all my clients. You're not alone. Every week I hear from at least a few people who want to know if they should try to open right from the start or ...
21 Tammi 202340min
95 Envisioning Your Dream Relationship
Creating the relationship you really want begins with the ENVISIONING process. Plus, it's really easy to find yourself in relationships that don't fit right (but do feel familiar) unless you actively ...
14 Tammi 202350min
