61 Relational Individuation: On becoming your Self
Have you ever had life throw something spectacular at you that inspired (or required) you to grow and change? That can happen, surprising us out of the blue. It can also be something we plan into our ...
13 Maalis 202227min
60 Making FUN happen in long term relationships
Long term fun? Sign me up! In this episode we talk about generating fun in the context of a relationship. We share some ideas about what could be fun, some thoughts about things that get in the way, a...
6 Maalis 202242min
59 What do I do with unrequited hots?
What do you do when you have the hots for someone unavailable? In this episode we talk about ways to approach the feelings that come up with unrequited attraction. Watch the video version of this epis...
1 Maalis 202231min
58 Anxiety when you are consensually non-monogamous
Can anxiety can be an opportunity? Consensual non-monogamy is not simple, and it can lead to anxiety. In this episode we talk about how that anxiety can be an opportunity and a guide to learn more abo...
20 Helmi 202241min
57 Affection and Non-sexual Intimacy
What if we want to show affection without being sexual? In this episode we talk about some of our experiences with difficulties that can come up around expressing and engaging in intimacy outside sexu...
13 Helmi 202224min
56 Creative Monogamy
It sounds kind of weird, but monogamy isn’t necessarily the opposite of non-monogamy. In this episode we talk about how we decide what the boundaries of our relationships are, and share some ideas abo...
6 Helmi 202236min
55 Parenting While Polyamorous
Talking with your kids about your relationships as a parent can be really beneficial for all of you, but it does take some care and attention. In this episode we talk about our experiences talking wit...
30 Tammi 202245min
54 Where do we learn the skills of adult friendships?
Are you married to your best friend? Do you have several best friends? Do you have friends that aren't best? In this episode we're talking about the nature of adult friendships, about the skills of fr...
2 Tammi 202234min
