45 Silent agreement - One person's perspective on a sexless marriage
Every marriage, every relationship is different. In this episode we talk about Ken's first marriage, his experience of infertility, and what he wishes he'd done differently, and why. As we mentioned i...
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44 Three ways porn has brought us closer together
Have you ever wondered how other people use porn? In this episode we talk about our own personal answers to that question, including de-stigmatizing porn, sharing it with each other, and ensuring that...
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43 The missing ingredient in boundary work with guest Melissa Hite
"Our relationships with others can only be as strong as our relationship with ourselves." That's just one insight we hear about in this episode during our talk with Melissa. We talk about how to tell ...
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42 It's normal to be a messy human in messy relationships. Really, it is.
Have you ever done something and looked back and said "That's not like me!" How does that happen? What do we do then? How can we use this information to manage ourselves and our relationships better? ...
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41 Emotional regulation and co-regulation
It's really helpful to have specific tools to use when we find ourselves managing stress, or sadness, or grief, or any of the other feelings that come with being alive. In this episode we talk about d...
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40 How to have a productive consensual non-monogamy conversation
Last episode we talked about setting up for success starting the first conversation on non-monogamy with your partner. In this episode, we talk about some of the practical details that you'll want to ...
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39 I want to be consensually non-monogamous: how do I talk to my partner?
We've had so many questions about this! How do I bring up the idea of non-monogamy with my partner? What can I do to make it go well? Spend a little time with us talking about what we've learned throu...
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38 How jealousy was the best thing that ever happened to me
Jealousy shows up differently for each of us, but it is a typical human experience. In this episode we talk about defining it, dancing with it, and five things we can do to use jealousy to strengthen ...
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