
Calling Your Energy Back From a Man Who Isn’t Choosing You
I want you to take your power back.Everybody sees that differently.So stick out your arms.There was a guy who broke up with you once. You invested in him, and you left pieces of yourself still in him....
2 Maalis 11min

Staying In Your Turn-On When You Feel Rejected
If a guy says, “What do you do?” or “How’s your work?” or “What are you doing at this party?” the first thing that happens is a thought like, What’s the best answer? What will he like the most? What w...
21 Helmi 10min

Breaking the Rejection Pattern
If you don’t think you’re controlling… you probably are.You’re just not doing it in an aggressive way.You’re not doing it in a way that other people would easily recognize.But if you leave a date and ...
14 Helmi 13min

Why Rejection Hurts So Much (and How to Make It Stop)
How do we actually deal with rejection?How do we signal a man from our soft, confident feminine… when inside we’re feeling vulnerable, exposed, and deeply afraid of rejection — whether that looks like...
6 Helmi 13min

Intimacy Without Overgiving - Don't Trade Love for Sex!
It takes a while — sometimes a year, year and a half — for men to decide that it’s correct, that you’re it, right?So what are you going to do during that time?Do you consider yourself a sexual being, ...
2 Helmi 12min

Stop Drifting Into Exclusivity! How Commitment Happens On A Feminine Timeline
We fall into relationships all the time… and we often have no idea what the details actually are. We enter vague relationship deals.So here’s the question:Why do we accept such vagueness from men?This...
24 Tammi 20min

When You Don’t Want an Answer — You Want a Hug
The need for validation, clarity, and connection often comes out as a question—because a question feels harmless.But what we’re really doing is throwing a spear at him.We’re literally throwing somethi...
17 Tammi 11min

Asking Him Questions Doesn’t Create Connection, Do This Instead…
Look at your hand. Look at the bracelet you’re wearing. Look at the shirt you’re wearing. Anything that inspires you to feel grounded, or the floor, or centered — or any of those words we always use —...
11 Tammi 19min




















