
3 Unlikely Ways to Shut Down a Passive-Aggressive Conversation
Stop playing these shady, passive-aggressive games! Right? It's not that easy.In this episode, you'll hear three better ways for you to bring clarity to a conversation that is going down that shady, #...
24 Syys 201917min

Staying With a Hijackal Out of Guilt and Duty? Unhealthy Reasons!
I know. You don't want to be accused, or accuse yourself, of abandoning a person. You especially don't want to be accused of abandoning a person in need.#Hijackals are always in need: in need of you t...
15 Syys 201924min

Unattachable? Why You Cannot Change the Nature of a Hijackal.
Parents who were emotionally available, perceptive, and responsive to you, to your needs and mental states, are a great gift! They tend to provide you with attachment that is secure. This is an excell...
9 Syys 201928min

Why Suffering in Silence Needlessly Ruins Relationships
Don't kid yourself! Your "silences" speak volumes!I work with people whose relationships are in crisis for so long, and their hope that not speaking up about things that are bothering them mostly does...
1 Syys 201920min

8 Tell-Tale Signs You're With an Emotional Terrorist
Any chance you've been walking on eggshells around someone in your life?A parent, partner, sibling, friend, ex?If so, there a good chance you're going to recognize some of their abusive behaviors in t...
26 Elo 20191h 4min

How Sneaky Covert Narcissists Play on Your Empathy
Do you have a feeling that what's going on in your relationship is less than honest, and yet, you feel strangely like you're not doing enough?You may well be with a covert narcissist!Even for me, work...
18 Elo 201951min

Intimate Terrorism. Is It Holding You Hostage?
Abuse in any form is bad news: verbal abuse, emotional abuse, physical abuse, financial abuse, spiritual abuse, sexual abuse. All bad!And, you need to know what intimate terrorism is because it has th...
12 Elo 201922min

See the Gaslighting! It's Verbal, Psychological, AND Emotional Abuse.
#Hijackals--those relentlessly difficult toxic people--want to define your reality for you. Right? They try to tell you what you think, what you feel, or what you remember or want. Crazy-making! Telli...
4 Elo 201921min



















