Hands On: Understanding Impact Tools
What does a flogger actually do?How is it different from a paddle, a cane, or even your own hand?In this Hands On episode, we slow things down and look at impact tools from the ground up. How they wor...
22 Huhti 15min
Hands On: Receiving Impact. Breath, Presence, and Letting Go
Receiving impact isn’t passive.In this episode of Hands On, we shift perspective and explore the skill of being on the receiving side, through breath, awareness, and presence.With guided exercises, yo...
19 Huhti 11min
Hands On: Impact Play. Control, Precision, and Presence
This is where we get practical.In the first episode of the Hands On series, we move from theory into practice with impact play, focusing on control, precision, and presence.Through simple, repeatable ...
18 Huhti 15min
Trust, And The Risk Of Letting Someone Matter
At some point, something shifts.What started as curiosity becomes connection.And suddenly, they matter.In this episode, Chris explores trust not just as safety, but as emotional exposure, and the quie...
11 Huhti 21min
Living with Depression in Kink
This is a bonus episode where I tell my story on how I live with depression, and kink. I hope it helps both others who struggle, and those who love them. I repeat several times in the episode that Kin...
9 Huhti 24min
The Experience Gap
What happens when one person is new to kink, and the other has years of experience?The experience gap can feel exciting, grounding, and full of possibility, but it can also bring uncertainty, pressure...
5 Huhti 35min
Presence and Attention
In this episode Chris tries to unlock the secret to magnetic connections. Attention is the real kink. Learn to be fully present, transforming scenes into experiences that resonate deeply. Discover pra...
29 Maalis 19min
Emotional Currents: Jealousy or The Fear of Not Being Chosen
Jealousy has a reputation for being ugly, but the internal experience is often far more vulnerable than that. In this episode of The Kink Compass, Chris explores what jealousy actually feels like, why...
15 Maalis 30min
