
Masculinity, Misrecognition, and Queer Legibility with JASPER
We talk about masculinity, softness, and what gets lost when people try to read each other too quickly. It’s part gender theory, part dyke banter, part designer testosterone? You can find JASPER here...
27 Huhti 47min

Queer Identity Development Theory
I was asked to create a class around the Queer Identity Development Theory I created for a University sexology course and I'm sharing that with you as well! The teacher loved it, I hope you do too! Mu...
21 Huhti 39min

The "boy crazy" to lesbian pipeline with Natalie Kelley
Natalie Kelly shares her journey of discovering her lesbian identity, the boy crazy to lesbian pipeline, and navigating relationships, gender expression, and societal expectations. You can find Natali...
6 Huhti 1h 3min

Don't count my p*ssy miles with Erica Smith
We talk about second adolescence pertaining to coming out as LGBTQ+, divorce and/or leaving a high control religion. What it can entail, feel like and why it often serves as an important part of ident...
30 Maalis 51min

Queering identity with Cindy Lee Alves Watley
We talk about the politics of identity and experience, metaphors for pleasure, and somehow land in our favorite conspiracy theories. Shout out Gerald the dolphin. You can find Cindy Lee here. You can ...
19 Maalis 46min

I run with d/kes: on the significance of queer friendship
I start this episode reflecting on the profound impact queer friendships have had on my life and how they’ve shaped the way I see myself and move through the world. Our relationships hold culture, und...
11 Maalis 45min

Are the heteros ok? Love is blind & performing attraction
Is "I like blondes" a sexual orientation or a bro hierarchy? Why does straight people talking about their types feel like what I was doing when I was experiencing comp-het? And what I'm actually into ...
3 Maalis 29min

Is scissoring real? & other queer sex questions with Cindy Lee
Erin and Cindy Lee talk queer/lesbian sex lore such as the controversy around the validity of scissoring/tribbing (what's the difference?), lesbian bed death, what "counts" as sex and more! You can f...
23 Helmi 49min



















