
Is It Worse To Be A Cynical Dater Or A Naive Dater?
On this week's Sunday Special, a listener writes in to ask how she should respond to a guy who took her out and then sent an uncomfortably long text explaining why he wants to just be friends. Why wou...
22 Marras 202021min

How Soon Should You Expect To Get Daily Messages From A Person You Started Dating?
The J’s start the show with a reaction to tone-deaf people on social media and a conversation about trying to make things romantic in a relationship after you move in together. Then a listener writes ...
18 Marras 20201h 20min

Does It Count As Cheating If He's Getting Nudes From Someone He Never Met?
To celebrate the three year anniversary of the U Up? podcast, Jared and Jordana are back to answer another listener email. This time around, the emailer found nudes in her boyfriend’s Snapchat message...
15 Marras 202028min

Is It a Dealbreaker If Your Significant Other Won’t Get a Dog?
Jordana and Jared begin the week with a conversation about cringe-worthy behavior from influencers (and review Jordana’s charcuterie board). Then a listener writes in to ask if she should call out the...
11 Marras 20201h 14min

Should I Keep Talking To Someone Who's In An Open Relationship?
On this Sunday Special, it’s time for another Deal Reveal as the J’s help a listener that says she started messaging with a former coworker who turned out to be in a relationship. Why would he like al...
8 Marras 202018min

Where's the Line Between Being Shady and Wanting Privacy?
Jared and Jordana start the show by asking whether or not it’s a deal breaker if someone wants to see your Instagram before going on a first date. A listener writes in to ask if it’s weird that the gu...
4 Marras 20201h 24min

Is It Ever Too Early To Tell a Guy You’re Really Into Him?
On this Sunday’s Deal Reveal, the J’s respond to a listener who is confused why the guy she was seeing got freaked out the moment she asked if they were “on the same page” as one another. They read th...
1 Marras 202024min

Is It Time to Start Accepting That Closure Isn’t A Real Thing?
Jordana and Jared start the show with a conversation about Halloween and dating. A listener writes in to ask if her boyfriend secretly has a crush on his roommate, and whether or not it’s weird that h...
28 Loka 20201h 26min




















