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People Pleasing, or the "Fawn" response, is prevalent in those of us with ADHD, it's a natural result of spending years being misunderstood by the culture but also ourselves. You may think you're just a kind, empathic, helpful person (and you probably are!) but people pleasing has nothing to do with any of those things and is actually very damaging in the long term. It leads to burnout, inauthentic relationships and a loss of identity - I speak from personal experience! But what I can also tell you from that experience....is that it doesn't have to be that way. It can feel scary but I promise, once you learn how important it is to listen to and respect your own needs, life will become SO much easier 🥰 you will wonder why you kept it up for so long!If you enjoy this episode please share it with your friends and keep the conversation going 🎙🙌Members Only Accountability Podcast: The Body Doubling ClubADHDFest Burnout Bible: The Burnout BibleFree Resource for Right to Choose Assessments: UK assessment bundleNewsletter here: Sign Up for UpdatesInstagram: ADHDFestFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ADHDfest/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhd_festWebsite: https://www.adhdfest.comDisclaimer: I am not a medical or mental health professional. I'm simply a fellow ADHD'er that hyper focused on strategies and hacks for the last year and half. I'm not expert, just learning alongside you and sharing what I find. For Entertainment Purposes Only. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.