Insecurity In Swinging: The Emotional Vulnerability

Episode two starts with Julie explaining how she can sometimes feel insecure with Matt when they swing with current and new partners.  Matt often worries that someone new will cross Julie’s personal boundaries, and she worries that a new partner will not respect her relationship with Matt. Other topics include the insecure feelings we get if we think that a new partner is a better lover for each other than we are. We discuss the open communication and re-connection we have that helps us work through these feelings and how we validate and reassure each other that our foundation is strong and lasting.  How do you deal with insecurity and vulnerability in your relationships?  Do you feel this comes up often?  We’d love to hear your stories and tips; check out our blog at American-Poly.com!