Breaking the Silence: How Shame and Emotional Disconnection Are Quietly Destroying Men’s Mental Health with Mordy Gottlieb

Breaking the Silence: How Shame and Emotional Disconnection Are Quietly Destroying Men’s Mental Health with Mordy Gottlieb

In this powerful episode, licensed clinical social worker and certified sex addiction therapist Mordy Gottlieb pulls no punches as he exposes how shame, perfectionism, and emotional disconnection are silently eroding men’s lives. From hiding true selves behind masks to living a “living death” at 10% capacity, Mordy shares why most men only seek help after crisis hits (and usually because their partner forced them). He reveals practical ways to drop the armor, feel emotions in the body instead of the head, and finally start living instead of just surviving.

Key Takeaways:

  • Shame’s core belief: “If you really knew me, you wouldn’t accept me” → this creates deep loneliness even inside marriages and families.

  • Perfectionism isn’t strength; it’s a shield that guarantees burnout and disconnection.

  • Most men don’t come to therapy because they want change; they come in their 40s-60s after relationships, work, or addictions collapse.

  • Vulnerability is required for real intimacy; without it, your partner can only love the mask, not you.

  • Experiential therapy works because it gets men out of their heads and into their bodies (focus on physical sensations, not “feeling words”).

  • Hidden disconnection shows up as 6-8 hours of mindless scrolling, numbing, and avoiding what’s really going on inside.

  • First micro-step to reconnect: find anything safe (nature, a tree, a pet, a book) and let yourself feel supported.

  • Biggest myth to retire: “Life shouldn’t be hard.” Accept that struggle is normal; chasing perfection keeps you miserable forever.

  • Men have become “nice guys” who never say no or express needs → this breeds resentment and destroys accountability in relationships.

  • Ultimate fear holding men back: abandonment. Speaking your truth risks rejection, but silence guarantees disconnection.

  • Permission to play: healing isn’t just serious work; it’s also about becoming childlike, having fun, and not taking life so damn seriously.

Connect with Mordy Gottlieb:Website & Free 50-minute Discovery Session: https://www.thegamechangergroup.com/(Social media coming soon; Mordy is just stepping into the space!)

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Transforming Life Through Purpose: A Conversation with Yvonne Trost

Transforming Life Through Purpose: A Conversation with Yvonne Trost

Join host Avik Chakraborty in this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life as he speaks with Yvonne Trost, a happiness coach and hypnotherapist. Yvonne shares her transformative journey from an unfulfilling corporate career to helping others live authentically. About the Guest: Yvonne Trost is a happiness coach, hypnotherapist, and yoga instructor, dedicated to empowering others through her work at Limitless You. Key Takeaways: Transformation Through Adversity: Struggles can lead to personal growth. Embracing Uncertainty: Letting go of fear is essential for progress. Purpose-Driven Entrepreneurship: Finding your purpose often leads to meaningful work. Self-Discovery: Yvonne offers a free quiz to help listeners gain self-awareness.   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch, DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik  Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/  Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/   #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness

28 Sep 202421min

Self-Protection Mastery with Sam Rosenberg

Self-Protection Mastery with Sam Rosenberg

Sam Rosenberg, Marine veteran and personal security expert, shares his journey and insights on self-protection, blending mental readiness with practical safety skills from his book Live Ready. About the Guest: Sam Rosenberg, former Marine and security specialist for high-profile clients, empowers people through self-defense education. Key Takeaways: Mental preparedness is key to self-defense. Recognizing danger is the first step to safety. Simple, effective self-protection tactics for everyone.   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch, DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik  Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/  Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/   #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness

28 Sep 202440min

Winning the Mental Health Battle with Karen Iverson

Winning the Mental Health Battle with Karen Iverson

In this episode, host Sana sits down with Karen Iverson, an award-winning author, counselor, and motivational speaker. Karen shares her personal journey from battling breast cancer to overcoming mental health challenges, offering insights from her latest book, Winning the Mental Health Battle. Together, they explore practical tools for managing anxiety, depression, and mania, and how to prioritize self-care in daily life. About the Guest: Karen Iverson is a licensed professional counselor and author whose personal experiences with breast cancer and mental health have fueled her passion for helping others thrive. Key Takeaways: The power of journaling and mindfulness in overcoming mental health struggles. Practical tools like the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique for managing anxiety and depression. Importance of self-care, therapy, and breaking the stigma around mental health. Strategies to incorporate mental wellness into daily routines.   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch, DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik  Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/  Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness

28 Sep 202419min

The Power of Middle Managers: Embracing the Learner Identity with Jeff Sigel

The Power of Middle Managers: Embracing the Learner Identity with Jeff Sigel

In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Sana sits down with Jeff Sigel, author of The Middle Matters and experienced corporate coach, to explore how middle managers can thrive by shifting from an achiever to a learner mindset. Jeff shares insights from his 20+ years of corporate experience and offers actionable strategies to help middle managers lead effectively, influence others, and create impactful work environments. About the Guest: Jeff Sigel is a seasoned corporate coach, consultant, and author dedicated to empowering middle managers. With over two decades of experience, Jeff’s book, The Middle Matters, serves as a toolkit for those navigating the complex responsibilities of middle management. Key Takeaways: Learner vs. Achiever Identity: Achievers define themselves by milestones, but this often leads to dissatisfaction. Embracing a learner identity fosters growth and continuous improvement. Middle Management Framework: Middle managers must balance doing, leading, and influencing. Building credibility, developing team capacity, and learning from others are essential. Learning in Action: Every task, even routine ones, should be approached with a mindset of learning and finding ways to improve efficiency. Organizational Support: Companies need to recognize the distinct skills required for middle management and provide the necessary training and development. Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch, DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik  Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/  Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness

28 Sep 202427min

Unlocking Inner Rhythms for Optimal Performance with Dr. Carlos Davidovich

Unlocking Inner Rhythms for Optimal Performance with Dr. Carlos Davidovich

In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Sana is joined by Dr. Carlos Davidovich, a medical doctor, Tedx speaker, and executive coach. Dr. Carlos shares insights on managing energy through understanding our physiological cycles. He discusses key ideas from his book 5 Brain Leadership and explains how leaders can optimize performance by aligning with natural rhythms and brain science. About the Guest: Dr. Carlos Davidovich is a neuroscience expert and international coach who bridges medicine and leadership. His work focuses on helping individuals and organizations optimize their performance by harnessing the brain's natural rhythms. Key Takeaways: Energy Over Time: Manage energy, not time, for greater productivity. Circadian Rhythm: Know your peak energy times to schedule tasks effectively. 5 Brain Leadership: Understanding different "brains" helps improve decision-making and leadership. Allostasis: The body naturally conserves energy for high-demand moments. Leadership Insight: Recognize internal and team dynamics for better collaboration.   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch, DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik  Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/  Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/   #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness

28 Sep 202422min

Stress, Intimacy, and Healthy Sexuality: Insights with Dr. Jenn Kennedy

Stress, Intimacy, and Healthy Sexuality: Insights with Dr. Jenn Kennedy

In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik Chakraborty is joined by Dr. Jenn Kennedy, a clinical sexologist and licensed marriage and family therapist. They explore how stress and anxiety impact sex drive and relationships, uncovering strategies to cultivate healthier intimacy. Dr. Kennedy also shares insights on the definition of healthy sexuality and how couples can maintain emotional and physical closeness even in high-stress periods. About the Guest: Dr. Jenn Kennedy is a clinical sexologist, licensed marriage and family therapist, and founder of Revera Therapy. With years of experience in helping couples and individuals navigate relationships, intimacy, and sexuality, she is also the creator of the Pleasure Project, a movement dedicated to enhancing the understanding and experience of healthy sexuality. PleasureProject.us Instagram: @DrJennKennedy Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/jenn-kennedy   Key Takeaways: Healthy Sexuality: Defined as feeling positive about intimacy, free from pressure, coercion, or obligation. Impact of Stress: Chronic stress releases cortisol, affecting sex drive and creating emotional distance in relationships. Communication is Key: Open, honest conversations outside the bedroom help couples stay connected emotionally and navigate intimacy. Maintaining Intimacy: Regular check-ins and designated time for connection, such as "date nights," foster both emotional and physical intimacy. Emotional Closeness: Day-to-day attentiveness, care, and understanding build emotional intimacy, making physical intimacy more accessible and meaningful. Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch, DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik  Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/  Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness

28 Sep 202416min

From Pain to Purpose: Rebuilding Self-Esteem & Breaking Mental Health Stigma with Justine Rodes

From Pain to Purpose: Rebuilding Self-Esteem & Breaking Mental Health Stigma with Justine Rodes

In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik Chakraborty interviews Justine Rodes, founder of Mentally a Badass. Justine shares her journey from childhood bullying and a bipolar II diagnosis to rebuilding her self-esteem through personal development. Now, she uses her platform to break mental health stigma and help others feel supported. About the Guest: Justine Rodes, founder of Mentally a Badass, advocates for mental health awareness through her podcast and social media, turning her struggles with bipolar II and childhood trauma into a mission to support others. Key Takeaways: Overcoming Bullying: How childhood trauma impacted Justine’s mental health. Personal Development: The tools Justine used to rebuild her self-esteem. Purpose from Pain: Justine’s mission to normalize vulnerability and support mental health. Daily Habits: Consistency in small, daily actions as a path to healing. Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch, DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik  Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/  Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness

27 Sep 202431min

Leading from Within: Self-Healing, Healthy Aging, and Wellness for Lifelong Success

Leading from Within: Self-Healing, Healthy Aging, and Wellness for Lifelong Success

In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik Chakraborty sits down with Christopher, a successful entrepreneur, self-healing coach, and author. Christopher shares his incredible journey from leadership in the construction industry to writing three transformative books, including Hernia Without Surgery. He opens up about the power of self-healing, leading from within, and maintaining lifelong wellness. Listeners will learn how to embrace resilience, maintain a positive mindset, and focus on holistic health to foster mental, physical, and emotional well-being. About the Guest: Christopher is a seasoned entrepreneur, self-healing advocate, and author with over 40 years of leadership experience. Transitioning from a career in construction, he is now the author of three insightful books focused on natural healing and wellness, including Hernia Without Surgery, Natural Testosterone After 60, and Belonging to Yourself. His personal journey through self-healing and wellness has inspired him to help others unlock their potential for lifelong health and success. Key Takeaways: Positive Mindset for Self-Healing: Accepting health challenges and embracing a positive outlook is the first step in healing naturally. The Power of Nutrition: Eating organic, whole foods and eliminating preservatives and sugar can significantly impact overall health and healing. Daily Movement Matters: Regular exercise is crucial to promoting blood flow, heart health, and longevity. Self-Love as a Foundation: Loving oneself is a critical part of maintaining wellness and leading a fulfilling life. Leadership Through Listening: Leading from within means listening to others and offering help or guidance when possible. Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch, DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik  Subscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us! YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylife Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/  Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.club Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymind LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness

27 Sep 202421min

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