164: Slaying The Inner And Outer Narcissist – Rick Clemons
Gaslighting. Blaming. Pulling wicked "not me, that's you" bullshit on ourselves and from others. It's called being a Narcissist. If you've ever lived with one you know what I mean. And, if you've ever...
18 Mar 202210min
163: The Art of Truly Loving Yourself As A Gay Man – Jerome Braggs
As RuPaul sez, "If you can't love yourself, how the hell you going to love someone else?" But what many of us as gay men don't realize is when we love ourselves, all is well, all is coming, all is del...
11 Mar 202249min
162: Give yourself a little RESPECT – Rick Clemons
As the queen of soul sez: R-E-S-P-E-C-T. It is time to respect yourself and if you don't then that is on you, and only you. Because self-respect is where confidence grows. And as another queen sez (Ru...
4 Mar 20229min
161: Skin Care, Plastics, And All That Anti-Aging Jazz – J. Shea Terry
Like it or not, all of us gay men are aging. It's a conveyor belt and there is nothing we can do about it. Nor should we feel pressure to do something about it. Yet, some gay men do choose cosmetic su...
25 Feb 202248min
160: Do we really have to play sexual roles? – Rick Clemons
Roles, roles, roles. Everyone wants us to play some role so that it makes it easier to relate to them. We all do it, and don't say you don't. Yet, as gay men, we feel like we have to fit into some con...
18 Feb 20228min
159: Loving Yourself This Valentine’s Day – Steve Disselhorst
Valentine's Day is just a few days away. So let's start crying the blues about what sucks about being a gay man and no one to love. Nah. Let's not do that. Let's talk about the challenges of not havin...
11 Feb 202241min
158: Conquering The Confidence Conundrum – Rick Clemons
How do you as a gay man, conquer the confidence conundrum? we say the last part of that question 3 times really fast, and if you can say that, you've got confidence! Just kidding. But, gaining/finding...
4 Feb 20229min
157: Yup. You’re No Good At Gay Sex! Really? – Rick Clemons
The clothes are coming off. Your heart's racing and an appendage is growing, and you can't wait to touch him and have him touch you. Then your head - the one above your shoulders starts creating a sto...
28 Jan 202210min
