Fix CPTSD Podcast | Psychology and Philosophy in Narcissistic Times with Richard Grannon29 Mai 2020

How to Thrive in your Relationships & Love with Intent (with Q&A)

Is there a war on love? Has our capacity to be intimate been sabotaged? Why are people anxious about their sexuality?

A talk about reality of love, intimacy and vulnerability in our emotionally violent culture, including the Q&A.

(00:00) Hello

(01:27) Paranoid Conspiracy Theory Time

(06:06) We Live In Times When Love Itself Has Been Controversialised

(10:35) If You’re Alone, It’s Not Necessarily Your Fault

Q&A Section

(12:24) “How do I get out of this mindset?”

(13:38) “Our relationship with some parts of ourselves is becoming schizophrenic, What does it mean?”

(16:33) “Is there a connection between an increase in sexual hostility and violence from men and feminism demonizing men?”

(21:18) Controversialisation Of Love And Intimacy Is Taken Further To Controversialisation Of Men

(25:49) Splitting And Black & White Thinking Are The Classic Responses To Traumatizing

(29:23) Answering Short Questions

(30:37) “So those of us who meet someone and truly fall in love is by chance?”

(33:41) “How do we train our subconscious to feel worthy of love and connection?”

(34:52) “How do we reconcile profound loneliness with profound fear of intimacy/abandonment?”

(36:31) “How to deal with the feeling of being love leading to believe it’s toxic?”

(39:57) “How can I find a good psychotherapist that actually understands narcissistic dynamics?”

(40:21) “If Czechs can’t lead in dance due to past communist regime, why can Ukrainians and Russians still do it?”

(41:54) Advice On The Correlation Between Today’s Subject And Long-Distance Relationship

(44:18) “Were you able to find love and relationship after what you’ve been through?”

(47:32) Is It Possible To Make Love Just Happen?

(52:55) Responding To Short Comments

(56:01) Goodbye

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