S15 Ep. 3: Kids Have Killed Our Sex Life, Sexual Shame, and Are mixed up people better in bed?

S15 Ep. 3: Kids Have Killed Our Sex Life, Sexual Shame, and Are mixed up people better in bed?

In this episode, Tracey and Kelsey discuss these three anonymous questions:


1) I’m reading lots of things on social media that suggest people who are emotionally volatile are better in bed. Is there any truth in this?


2) Everyone talks about how having kids ruins your sex life. But no one talks about your wife never wanting sex ever again afterwards. It’s been six years since our last child was born, and we now have sex around three times a year. She has zero interest, and tells me I’m not being supportive for wanting sex with her when she’s so busy.


3) I am a man in his mid-50s and have carried this for years: When I was 12 years old, my mother walked into my bedroom while I was masturbating and humiliated me for it. This has left me with intense shame ever since. How do you get over something like this? I feel uncomfortable even when a sex scene comes on when watching TV with my wife.


To have Tracey and Kelsey discuss YOUR secret sex question, enter it anonymously at https://bit.ly/3C4AelU


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