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Ep 624: Breaking down barriers to Women's Sexual Health with Dr. Jessica Yih, MD, a urologist aka drsexandsperm on social media who is an Assistant Professor at the Department of Urology, Director of Women's Sexual Health and Male Infertility at the University of California, Irvine. She shares all her insights about the clitoris, female sexuality, and the new direction medicine is taking in finally paying more attention to women's sexual organs, pleasure, anatomy, function, and illness.  Summary: Discover the Hidden Power of the Clitoris and a Revolutionary Look at Women's Sexual Health Join Dr. Jessica Yih (aka drsexandsperm on social media), a pioneering urologist, as she unveils groundbreaking insights about female sexual health and anatomy. Did you know the clitoris contains an astounding 10,000 nerve endings and is much larger than commonly believed? This eye-opening episode challenges traditional perspectives and breaks down barriers in women's sexual health education. Dr. Yih shares her personal journey in the male-dominated field of urology and discusses how limited medical training on women's sexual health inspired her to become an advocate for change. The conversation explores crucial topics including: - The complex anatomy and size of the clitoris - Breaking down shame and cultural taboos - Understanding sexual health across different life stages - The impact of hormonal changes on sexual wellness - Barriers in testosterone therapy for women and the potentially harmful impacts of the oral contraceptive pill in damaging a woman's ability to have pleasure with sex This frank and informative discussion illuminates the importance of self-discovery and understanding your body without shame. Whether you're curious about your own anatomy or seeking to enhance your sexual wellbeing, this episode offers valuable insights that could transform your perspective on female sexuality. Ready to revolutionize your understanding of women's sexual health?  Timeline: 00:01:57 - Women's Sexual Health Awareness 00:05:21 - Understanding the Clitoris Anatomy 00:10:45 - Anatomy and Arousal 00:17:31 - Exploring Sensuality and Orgasms 00:21:16 - Understanding Sexual Health and Pleasure 00:23:22 - Impact of Aging on Sexuality 00:27:27 - Understanding Women's Hormonal Changes & Hormone Therapy Autonomy 00:35:06 - Hormone Therapy Benefits for Women 00:38:52 - Understanding Vestibule Pain and Testosterone 00:42:01 - Understanding Hormonal Vestibulodynia 00:44:46 - Impact of Oral Contraceptives on Health 00:47:35 - Testosterone Therapy and Patient Advocacy 00:52:55 - Advocating for Sexual Health Awareness 00:55:28 - Exploring Sexual Trauma Healing Key Takeaways Dr. Yih https://linktr.ee/drsexandsperm • There is a significant lack of education about female anatomy, particularly the clitoris, which contributes to societal shame surrounding female sexuality.   • Understanding one's body, including embracing self-exploration, is essential for enhancing pleasure and mental health, regardless of age. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

20 Jun 56min

Ep 622: Getting a surprise mystery fantasy in a box delivery is about the most delicious, sexy, and hot date night prep imaginable! The erotic romance hits the mark in this erotica fiction story where the couple enjoys trying out new toys, leadership/submission in restraints and orgasm control, plus a new sheer sensual outfit from a box with sexy contents. The guidance of the box, their deluge into dominance and submission role playing, and the yummy surprises have them basting in their libidos and marinating in their sexual juices! Enjoy your sexuality to the max on date night and check this out!!!!!  I've personally tried out a similar box and it was an incredible experience! It's top notch super sexy and immersive in the best most juicy ways possible! The guidance the kit provides will grow trust in relationships while giving everyone involved a fun, sexy, satisfying experience! Five stars times a million! This story was sponsored by The Fantasy Box, where you can try out a similar fantasy in a box, or find a theme you like! Check out all the sexy options (affiliate link, this podcast may receive a commission on boxes purchased) https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2141126/26423 https://thefantasybox.sjv.io/c/6250602/2152196/26423 Sexual health is a part of your mental health, don't ignore it! Dive in for self care, partner care, and mutual pleasure today and every day! Hey, why not get kinky? You might like it! Enjoy this erotic audio. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

17 Jun 23min

Ep: 621, The Art of Intimate Connection: Beyond Physical Touch with Jake (Jakub Tyl) Discover how synchronized breathing and emotional presence can transform intimate relationships in ways you never imagined. In this fascinating episode, professional bodyworker Jake shares his unique perspective on the intersection of touch, emotion, and healing, particularly in women's experiences. Through his four years of specialized practice in erotic, tantric, and BDSM massage, Jake reveals how authentic intimacy transcends technical expertise. He emphasizes that true connection happens when partners are fully present and attuned to each other's emotional states. Key highlights: - The transformative power of therapeutic touch - How body awareness leads to better relationship choices - Breaking through emotional barriers from past relationships - The importance of presence and trust in intimate connections - Using synchronized breathing to deepen emotional bonds Ready to revolutionize your understanding of intimacy and emotional connection? Listen to this eye-opening episode that challenges conventional wisdom about relationships and personal growth. Tune in now to explore how deep emotional presence can transform your approach to intimacy and relationships. Find out more about Jake: https://www.dotekerota.com/hole On Instagram @dotek.erota Chapters: 00:00:00 - Introduction to Jake's Unique Profession 00:02:06 - Understanding Female Sexuality and Connection 00:10:21 - Connecting with Your Body and Emotions 00:24:38 - Challenges of Intimacy in Relationships 00:26:58 - Emotional Connection in Intimacy 00:52:28 - Understanding Touch and Connection 00:58:14 - Overcoming Intimacy Expectations 01:03:55 - Intimacy Beyond Technique 01:14:26 - Enjoying the Present Moment in Intimacy 01:18:02 - Understanding Sensual BDSM Dynamics 01:22:52 - Balancing Aggression and Tenderness in BDSM 01:25:27 - Building Trust in Dominance 01:32:08 - Embracing Dominance and Learning Key Takeaways: • The emphasis on synchronized breathing as a tool for fostering deeper intimacy is often overlooked in traditional relationship discussions.   • Jake highlights that emotional breakthroughs through intimacy can redefine women's boundaries and desires, showcasing a transformative aspect of touch.   • The podcast advocates for emotional engagement over mechanical techniques, suggesting that true connection requires presence and trust rather than just physical actions. Sexual health is a part of mental health, don't ignore it. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

13 Jun 1h 32min

Episode 619: Age Gap Tea Bagging and Oral, Erotica Excerpt from Mallory and Derek Attend Secret Parties, written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, Book blurb: Mallory and Derek are a young mutually dedicated bisexual couple. They both love adventure and new experiences. It's what drew them to each other in the first place. They desire to explore more together, so they decide to join a swinger's alternative lifestyle club. Once the initial overwhelm wears off, they dive in to the insatiable group fun at the private parties, and don't look back. Their world opens up and they can't get enough. They have so much fun, their minds, and their climaxes, are blown to new heights. Life can't get any better. They make new friendships, and cultivate deeper ones that enrich their lives, while they work hard at being diligently respectful of their mutual boundaries. And all the party games, oh, that's mind-blowing and not stopping in its ever-expanding ecstasy! The couple is hooked! When a photographer is hired for one of the private parties and takes sexy pictures of Mallory with an older man who had become one of her regular play partners, Mallory's life, and career, take a turn for the unexpected. She finds herself lucky to be a huge overnight success as a content creator when she begins to post nude pics and spicy videos online. As she finds herself further entrenched in her life with her devoted partner Derek, her new older millionaire gentleman friend wants to be a permanent person in her life, too. Mallory is lucky, she's got two very supportive partners in her life! Who comes along for the full entrepreneurial ride she's on remains to be seen. However, one thing is for sure, she's taking this pleasure train for life. And whoever is by her side better hold tight because it's promising to be a wild trip! Tropes:  erotica, Polyamory love triangle, swinging, BDSM, D/s, multiple partner intimacy and relationships, impact play, intimate scenes, bisexuality, experimentation, and empowerment. Get the book (releasing July 1, 2025): https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/malloryandderekattendsecretparties Get all the chapters by subscribing for $3. Subscription Process: Join now for access to all the padlocked episodes! Many people have reached out to me about how to access the padlocked episodes once they've signed up, unfortunately I can't respond to fan mail, but I can put some information here.  After subscribing, you should have received an email with your Personal RSS Feed. Then take that RSS Feed and subscribe to it through your favorite listening app. Check out this article for those steps . If you have troubles, you can also email support@buzzsprout.com for further assistance. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

10 Jun 15min

**From Banking to Beautiful Moments: A Photographer's Journey of Healing** Discover how "The Fiddler of Light," a former banker turned photographer and visual artist, transformed personal struggles into powerful artistic expression. After experiencing burnout, Greg found salvation through his camera lens, evolving from train photography to creating intimate portraits that celebrate human vulnerability and beauty, including the art of nude photography. This episode delves deep into the delicate art of nude photography, exploring how authentic connections and trust create transformative experiences for both photographer and subject, as well as the viewer of the photos. Greg shares compelling insights about cultural differences between European and American approaches to nudity, while emphasizing the crucial distinction between artistic expression and sexuality. Most powerfully, Greg reveals how photography became his healing tool, helping not only himself but also his subjects embrace self-acceptance and recognize their unique beauty. Through his lens, he's helped individuals with personal struggles, including those battling illness and self-image issues, find new perspectives on their bodies and themselves. Ready to explore the intersection of art, healing, and human connection? Listen to this powerful episode about finding light in unexpected places. 00:00:00 - Introducing Photographer Greg from Germany 00:01:04 - From Banking to Photography Journey, mental health 00:03:57 - Journey from Burnout to Photography 00:06:36 - Importance of Human Connection in Photography 00:08:44 - Rediscovering Self-Confidence Through Photography 00:10:55 - Creating Beauty Through Photography 00:13:35 - Understanding Nude Photography Motivations 00:15:49 - Nudity vs. Sexuality Debate 00:16:52 - Photography and Nudity in Different Cultures 00:19:22 - Nude Photography and Artistic Boundaries 00:23:49 - Capturing Trust and Inspiration in Photography 00:26:24 - Embracing Sensuality and Self-Love 00:29:29 - Future Aspirations in Photography 00:32:40 - Transformative Journey Through Art 00:37:25 - Support Through Photography and Art • Greg's transition from an uninteresting, unmotivating banking career to the joys and delights of photography was driven by a personal burnout, illustrating the significant impact of mental health on career choices.   • He emphasizes the critical role of consent and comfort in nude photography, which challenges conventional restrictive views on this artistic genre, and breaks down the taboos of nude pictures while highlighting the artistic beauty and celebratory views of the body as a work of natural art.   • Greg views photography not just as a visual medium, but as a form of communication and connection that promotes self-acceptance and reevaluates societal norms surrounding nudity. Nudity is not always sexual, it can be sensual, and he champions that mantra in his photography work. Find out more about The Fiddler of Light: https://www.fiddler-of-light.de/ Summary by Cleanvoice. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

6 Jun 39min

Ep 616: Sex on the Beach, Excerpt from The Siren Who Couldn't Sing, An Open Door Erotic Romantasy Tale. Get book 1, Wingless Hunger, in audiobook: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/winglesshungeraudiobook Buy the Book The Siren Who Couldn't Sing: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/thesirenwhocouldntsing Get all four novellas in Deception's Snare: https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/deceptionssnare eBooks are also currently available in Kindle Unlimited (subject to change). Also available in paperback. The Open Door Romantasy Continues from Wingless Hunger to The Siren Who Couldn't Sing (book 2 in the series) ... Gabriella finds herself nude on the beach and reaching out for her hero again. Story blurb: Gabriella finally found what she was looking for. As a fairy-siren-human, she was with the love of her life, a human male named Leif. Gabriella and Leif settled into a happy life, but everything changes when Gabriella is summoned back to the sea. The siren in her makes her ocean bound journey smooth, that is until an unseen force starts messing with the couple and splits them up. While they feel like powerless pawns in a chess game as their hearts and bodies get wrenched from each other, all they want is their happily ever after, if only the one in power will allow that to happen. Enjoy book 2 in the Arching Hunger Series, a spicy open-door HEA Romantasy, with explicit intimate scenes, forced proximity, devotion, love, and a shrinking & growing woman. This a relationship driven romance first fantasy saga, where the relationship is topmost. Tropes: *Open Door, HEA Spicy Romantasy, spicy erotic romance fiction. *Lust First, sexuality. *Forced proximity. *Shrinking woman, growing woman. *She needs a hero. *He's a cinnamon roll. *The miracle they seek, they don't know all the rules. Wingless Hunger is a novella, book 1 of 4 in the Arching Hunger series. Enjoy the entertainment of spicy storytelling about relationships and spicy open door erotic romance, romantic fantasy fiction in this audiobook written and narrated by podcast host Ruan Willow, author, podcaster, and audiobook narrator. Support human voices only in audio and buy only human created content. Support humans not automation. Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

3 Jun 17min

Season 5, Episode 615: Rediscovering Intimacy: A Journey of Sexual Exploration After 60. Listen to Greg's personal story! Topics include personal stories of:  intimacy sex  kinks male sexual health sexual wellness male sexuality female sexuality sensuality communication personal growth rediscovery sex and aging interactions between a male and female partner in sexual explorations within a relationship Finding Love and Sexual Liberation After 60 Discover how one man's unexpected connection with a younger partner revolutionized his understanding of intimacy and sexuality in his golden years. Greg's story challenges conventional wisdom about age and desire, proving it's never too late for transformative relationships. Through candid conversations, Greg shares his journey from a sexually restrictive marriage to embracing open communication and exploration with a new partner. His experience highlights the profound impact of honest dialogue about desires and boundaries, demonstrating how breaking free from societal constraints can lead to unprecedented personal growth. Key highlights: - Transitioning from a closed-off marriage to an open, communicative relationship - Exploring new dimensions of intimacy with a younger partner - Breaking age-related stereotypes about sexuality - The importance of honest dialogue about desires and boundaries - Finding hope and renewal in later-life relationships This powerful episode offers inspiration and practical insights for anyone questioning their sexual future, regardless of age. Listen now to discover how embracing vulnerability and openness can lead to extraordinary connections at any stage of life. 🎧 Tune in to hear Greg's full story and learn why it's never too late to rewrite your relationship narrative. Timeline: 00:00:00 - Sexuality After 60: A Personal Journey 00:03:46 - Importance of Open Sexual Communication 00:06:11 - Challenges in Marital Communication 00:08:55 - Exploring New Sexual Experiences 00:10:22 - Exploring Sex Toys Together 00:14:14 - Preparing for Future Relationships 00:17:15 - Discovering Female Sensuality 00:19:00 - Exploring Sensuality and Intimacy 00:22:02 - Overcoming Shame in Relationships 00:25:58 - Exploring Female Sexuality and Orgasms 00:28:40 - Exploring Sexual Boundaries and Preferences 00:30:47 - Exploring New Experiences Together 00:32:23 - Open Communication in Relationships 00:34:20 - Unexpected Honey Experience 00:35:59 - Importance of Communication in Relationships Summary: Cleanvoice Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

30 Mai 38min

Season 5, Episode 613: An Orgasm a Day Keeps the Hunger at Bay, A Cheating Story, Her Refuge, written and narrated by podcast host, author, and narrator Ruan Willow. When Seeing Her Lover is a Refuge to Feeling Alive Again. Erotica fiction where Dana is a lonely woman who is withering away with a thirst for way more than her husband is willing to give her, and when he doesn't even bother to remotely give her what she needs, nor what she deserves, she finds someone who will. Enter Chef George. He makes her feel alive, helps her explore her sexuality, and not only accepts, but glorifies the sexy sexual being that she is. How could something that feels this right be wrong? The answer is...it can't be. Enjoy this story of about complicated taboo relationships, sexuality, seeking one's needs, the search for feeling alive again, and the forbidden love of a secret lover.  Entertainment arts can come in the form of an erotic romance short story, providing tales that stretch our minds, help us process life, and give us different perspectives to consider, all through the art of storytelling. This can greatly impact our lives. Takeaways to ponder: Does this story trigger you?  Why? Why not? Do you identify with any of the characters? Why do people cheat? Would you ever decide on trying ethical nonmonogamy in your relationship? Life is messy, complicated, and convoluted, but ignoring your sexuality surely ends in disaster, low quality of life, and unfulfillment. Don't ignore your sexuality/sexual health/sexual wellness, or that of your partner, that's one of the keys to a successful relationship and a happier life. Ruan's upcoming release: A Why Choose Dark Romance Novel Spring Break and Stranded at a Cabin with 8 Men https://books.ruanwillowauthor.com/springbreakstrandedcabineightmen Support the show Newsletters https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow Affiliate Firm Tech 15% OFF with code ruan15 https://myfirmtech.com/ruanwillow

27 Mai 12min