363. Let people have the wrong impression of you ft. Eli Rallo

363. Let people have the wrong impression of you ft. Eli Rallo

These days it's easy to feel observed and, therefore, judged by everyone for everything, whether that's online or in real life. Eli Rallo is an author and creator who understands this experience better than most of us and today we chat about her journey from a hardworking, theatre loving child to a nearly three time author and the Carrie Bradshaw of this generation. Our discussion includes topics like:

  • Why is it so difficult to let people misunderstand you?
  • How our core wounds effect how we handle criticism
  • The power of delusional thinking
  • How to manage comparison in hyper-competitive spaces
  • The truth about influencer culture
  • What it takes to become an author
  • How do you know you’re with the right person?

That and so much more! Listen now!

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*The views expressed by guests are not necessarily shared by our host! We invite open discussion and differing viewpoints, experiences and information.

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