ZM14 Sep 2021

No Weak Knees! (Why you should stay away from some people) - Suzie The Dating Diva Sept 14 2021

Suzie is online @ www.SingleDatingDiva.com

§ Do they make you melt like butter on a hot day? Or maybe give you sunstroke? Either way, you are giving away your power and control if they make you weak in the knees.

§ I get it, the chemistry is unbelievable. The energy is electric. Butterflies in your stomach are out of control. You are feeling a little hot, perhaps even a little faint. You think, "this THIS is what I've been waiting for all my life!" This MUST be my soul mate! Nope.

§ The rush is fantastic, do not get me wrong, the fireworks are great BUT a fire that burns hot and fast usually fizzles out just as fast and sometimes releases toxic chemicals in the air making you sick.

§ It may feel like love but it is not. It is infatuation and infatuation is dangerous because it blinds you and causes you to act like someone you are not. They also can take advantage of your blind “love”.

§ Listen, I have been there and it feels ohhhh so amazing but you are left feeling gross after. Kind of like when you indulge in eating something you know will make you sick.

§ You need to evaluate where you are at with someone in order to truly know if you are in a healthy relationship or not. Remember, love includes respect, trust, honor and sharing your life in a meaningful normal way with someone. Passion is great but is not sustainable.

§ If you find yourself falling for the ones who make you weak in the knees, you should do some internal work to figure out why you are falling for unhealthy attachments. A fun fling here and there that you are fully aware of it not going anywhere does not count. I am talking about when you are consumed by another person that you cannot find real love because you are obsessed.

§ Once you learn and believe your worth, you will not accept anything less than you deserve. Remember that.

POST IT NOTE / MANTRA: I am worthy of a healthy relationship

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