How to Get Older Without Getting Old - Rules for Ageing Well

What does it actually mean to age well? We all know people who seem to get older but never old – they're curious, kind, and somehow more alive with each passing decade.

And then there are others who retreat, complain, and shrink their world.

Today we're decoding what it really takes to age well – mentally, physically, socially, and financially.

We'll look at some wisdom from Roger Rosenblatt's witty book Rules for Ageing, and add Simon's demographic lens to see what the data says about how we can actually put this into practice.

Our conversation also touches on demographic trends affecting aging in Australia, highlighting the importance of community and social connections for a fulfilling life as we grow older.

Takeaways

· Aging well means living with vitality, not just longevity.

· Demographic trends show we are living longer, necessitating a focus on quality of life.

· Emotional regulation improves with age, allowing for better self-acceptance.

· Letting go of what others think can lead to a more fulfilling life.

· Incremental changes are more sustainable than radical reinventions.

· Humor is essential for coping with life's challenges.

· Pursuing virtue is important, but perfection is not necessary.

· Life is inherently unfair; acceptance is key to resilience.

· Curiosity keeps the mind active and engaged throughout life.

· Physical activity and social connections are crucial for healthy aging.

Chapters

00:00 What it really means to age well in a world where we live much longer.
04:00 Emotional freedom: stop worrying what others think and let go of perfection.
08:10 Evolving gradually, keeping humour and staying kind without self-righteousness.
12:10 Accepting the past, embracing unfairness and releasing old grudges.
16:10 Key habits of healthy aging: curiosity, learning, movement and social connection.
20:50 The demographic reality: Australia's rapidly growing elderly population and how society must adapt.

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This episode was inspred by Roger Rosenblatt's book Rules for Aging

About Simon Kuestenmacher

Simon Kuestenmacher is co-founder and Director – The Demographics Group

Simon is a prolific media commentator on demographic and data matters and a columnist for The New Daily and The Australian newspapers.

He ranks as one of the world's Top 10 influencers in data visualisation. If you can't get enough of the kind of data that explains how the world works, make sure to follow Simon on Linked In or X (formerly Twitter) or any of his other social channels.

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About Michael Yardney

Michael Yardney - founder Metropole Property Strategists has been voted one of Australia's 50 most influential Thought Leaders.

While he is best known as a property expert, Michael is also Australia's leading expert in the psychology of success and wealth creation.

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