34. Why we love. Why it hurts

34. Why we love. Why it hurts

Why do we long for closeness and feel fear when it becomes real?

Why can two people love each other deeply and still not be able to carry the same life?


In this episode of 34o, Henrik reflects on love as a timeless human experience, from ancient texts and literature to modern relationships and heartbreak. About longing, jealousy, vulnerability and the courage it takes to stay present when love asks more of us than we feel ready to give.


This is not an episode about blame or answers.

It’s about awareness.

About learning to pause instead of react.

About seeing both our light and our shadow and choosing how we love.


If you’ve ever loved deeply, lost something that mattered, or wondered why intimacy can hurt as much as it heals, this episode is for you.

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29. Dance of Polarity: Part II - Integration & Inner Union

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27. Frieda – Present Enough to Be Loved

27. Frieda – Present Enough to Be Loved

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26. Dance of Polarity: Part I - The Energy Between Masculine & Feminine

26. Dance of Polarity: Part I - The Energy Between Masculine & Feminine

Henrik meets polarity coach and synthesizer Jonas Johnsson for a deep conversation on the dance between masculine and feminine energies - within ourselves and between people.They explore how attractio...

18 Nov 202530min

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13 Nov 20259min

25. Sandra - When Desire Could Breathe

25. Sandra - When Desire Could Breathe

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10 Nov 202518min

24. 🇸🇪 Att älska på riktigt - Love, Presence & Vulnerability (Swedish Episode)

24. 🇸🇪 Att älska på riktigt - Love, Presence & Vulnerability (Swedish Episode)

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