Ep217: From 2017 to 2026 - Reflecting on Nine Years of Rope Conversations (Listener Mail)

Listener Bethany asks Fox and Mya a deceptively simple question: after nine years of making the Rope Podcast, what’s actually changed about their rope - and the way they think about it? The answer turns into a wide-ranging, honest reflection on how rope evolves over time: through experimentation, relationships, community, aging, and life doing what life does. In this episode, they talk about: • How their intents in rope have shifted - and why that matters • Using experimentation to uncover what truly sits at the core of their rope practice • How the ties in Fox’s rope system have changed over the years • How changes in relationship style reshaped how they think about and position rope partners • Mya’s journey from early innocence into a deeper engagement with safety, consent, and responsibility as a bottom • What’s changed in the rope scene around them - and how that’s influenced their choices • A key lesson from doing rope cross-culturally, and how it transformed their approach to consent • Some of the biggest shifts in how they approach rope, and what prompted them • The tying styles they’ve explored, abandoned, or kept • How age and changing lives have altered what rope looks like now • How tying outside their rope partnership has evolved for each of them • Ways they try to live their values in rope, even when it’s uncomfortable • What hasn’t changed - and why those constants still matter • And yes… cuddly rope and TV rope This conversation feels like sitting down with old friends who’ve carried rope through some of life’s biggest transitions and come out with deeper curiosity and clearer priorities. Part reflection, part history, and part check-in, it’s a look at what it really means to grow with rope over the long term. Click to listen, and consider: what’s changed in your rope over the years - and what’s stayed the same?