436: Attachment Styles Explained: Why We Chase Unavailable People (and What To Do Instead) with Thais Gibson

436: Attachment Styles Explained: Why We Chase Unavailable People (and What To Do Instead) with Thais Gibson

Why do we want the people who give us the least clarity? Why do situationships feel addictive, and emotionally unavailable partners feel magnetic?


In this episode, Thais Gibson, founder of The Personal Development School, breaks down attachment styles and how they shape attraction, chemistry, boundaries, and relationship patterns. We discuss anxious attachment, dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant, and secure attachment, when attachment styles begin, and why they can change throughout life.


We also explore the difference between chemistry and trauma bonding, why we’re drawn to our repressed traits, the six stages of relationships, and why nervous system work alone isn’t enough to create secure relationships. Thais shares the five pillars to change your attachment style, common triggers and boundary patterns for each style, and the practical steps to becoming securely attached.


If you’re stuck in mixed signals, repeating relationship patterns, or craving clarity in love, this episode will help you understand why, and what to do differently.


Visit university.personaldevelopmentschool.com and use code PDS2026 for 20% off of the Personal Development School’s 90-Day Attachment Healing membership.


This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.


Produced by Dear Media

See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Episoder(445)

421: 9 Hidden Root Causes of Anxiety You Haven’t Heard About & the 3 Step Path to Healing with Dr. Nicole Cain

421: 9 Hidden Root Causes of Anxiety You Haven’t Heard About & the 3 Step Path to Healing with Dr. Nicole Cain

Dr. Nicole Cain is a leading expert in trauma-informed Clinical Psychology and holistic medicine for anxiety and panic, and author of the acclaimed book Panic Proof. She joins the show to unpack the ...

5 Nov 202552min

420: Cold Plunges, How to Beat Cravings & Cosmetic Acupuncture: What Works—and What Doesn’t, with Dr. Felice Chan

420: Cold Plunges, How to Beat Cravings & Cosmetic Acupuncture: What Works—and What Doesn’t, with Dr. Felice Chan

This week, I’m joined by Dr. Felice Chan, a Chinese medicine doctor who bridges Eastern and Western approaches to healing after years studying allopathic medicine including shadowing an oncology neuro...

29 Okt 20251h 2min

419: From Romania to Hollywood: Anastasia Soare on Beauty, Perseverance & A Billion Dollar Brand Based on a Single Idea

419: From Romania to Hollywood: Anastasia Soare on Beauty, Perseverance & A Billion Dollar Brand Based on a Single Idea

Anastasia is an entrepreneur (founder of Anastasia Beverly Hills) and author of Raising Brows: My Story of Building a Billion Dollar Beauty Empire. From watching Oprah in Romania without speaking a wo...

27 Okt 202545min

418: The Victoria’s Secret Model Workout and The Dose Mentality: The Smarter Way to Get Strong and Lean with Joe Holder

418: The Victoria’s Secret Model Workout and The Dose Mentality: The Smarter Way to Get Strong and Lean with Joe Holder

This week I’m joined by Joe Holder: performance specialist, Nike Master Trainer, and wellness educator who’s worked with everyone from Victoria’s Secret models to elite athletes, for a conversation th...

22 Okt 20251h 8min

417: The Birkin of Bodies: Mommy Makeovers, Menopause, GLP-1’s & the Art of Enhancement with Dr. Ryan Neinstein

417: The Birkin of Bodies: Mommy Makeovers, Menopause, GLP-1’s & the Art of Enhancement with Dr. Ryan Neinstein

Dr. Ryan Neinstein is one of the most sought-after plastic surgeons in the world, known for his meticulous artistry, innovative techniques, and unwavering commitment to excellence. In this high-energy...

20 Okt 202549min

416: The Tools for Longevity: Brain, Beauty and Health Protocols You Haven’t Heard Yet with Dr. Kay Linker, PhD

416: The Tools for Longevity: Brain, Beauty and Health Protocols You Haven’t Heard Yet with Dr. Kay Linker, PhD

Neuroscientist and longevity expert Dr. Kay Linker joins me to break down the science of staying young—inside and out. We dive deep into how the brain ages (and how to slow it down), the neuroscience ...

15 Okt 202555min

415: Hair Myths, Hacks, Products to Use & the Truth Behind the Glam with Jen Atkin

415: Hair Myths, Hacks, Products to Use & the Truth Behind the Glam with Jen Atkin

Jen Atkin is a celebrity hairstylist, founder of the brands OUAI and Mane, co-founder of Highlight Artists, author and BELLAMI Global Brand Ambassador. She joins me for a candid conversation on all th...

13 Okt 202556min

414: Solo Q&A: Can You Be Friends with an Ex? Advice to my 20-something Self & the 5 Beauty Things I Can’t Live Without

414: Solo Q&A: Can You Be Friends with an Ex? Advice to my 20-something Self & the 5 Beauty Things I Can’t Live Without

In this solo, I’m catching you up on everything: walking through hard things and what it actually feels like when life finally turns around. I talk about staying friends with an ex (yes, it’s possible...

8 Okt 20251h 3min

Populært innen Samfunn

rss-spartsklubben
giver-og-gjengen-vg
aftenpodden
konspirasjonspodden
popradet
aftenpodden-usa
rss-nesten-hele-uka-med-lepperod
lydartikler-fra-aftenposten
rss-henlagt-andy-larsgaard
wolfgang-wee-uncut
min-barneoppdragelse
grenselos
synnve-og-vanessa
alt-fortalt
frokostshowet-pa-p5
rss-dette-ma-aldri-skje-igjen
fladseth
198-land-med-einar-trnquist
rss-dannet-uten-piano
relasjonspodden-med-dora-thorhallsdottir-kjersti-idem