Monique Did Everything Right: Therapist on Tepe Aftermath and What It Means for Victims

Monique Did Everything Right: Therapist on Tepe Aftermath and What It Means for Victims

Two children lost both parents in a single night. A one-year-old and four-year-old were found physically unharmed but alone in the house with the bodies of Spencer and Monique Tepe.

Those kids are now being raised by family. Over a thousand people attended the funeral. And everyone touched by this case is asking the same question: What could Monique have done differently?

The answer might be nothing. She recognized the danger early. She got out in seven months. She didn't stay to try to fix it. She told people about the abuse and the death threats. She moved on, remarried, had children, built a beautiful life. She did everything we tell victims to do.

And she's still dead.

In Part 3 of our three-part interview series, psychotherapist Shavaun Scott helps us reckon with that reality. Shavaun has spent over thirty years in trauma recovery and believes deeply in the possibility of healing. But she's also honest about what this case reveals.

We examine how young children process loss. We explore survivor's guilt. We ask what healing looks like for a shattered family. And we confront the devastating truth: sometimes doing everything right still isn't enough — and that says more about the system than it does about any victim.

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Monique Tepe: You Are What You Build After—Healing From Coercive Control

Monique Tepe: You Are What You Build After—Healing From Coercive Control

She chose love again. She chose parenthood. She chose a partner who mentored kids and showed up for his community every day. She chose joy while carrying years of alleged terror.That's not foolishness...

1 Mar 30min

Monique Tepe: From Love Bombing to Cage—Understanding What Happened

Monique Tepe: From Love Bombing to Cage—Understanding What Happened

If something in this episode sounds familiar—not from a case file, but from your own life—that recognition is the first step.According to witnesses closest to Monique Tepe, her seven-month marriage to...

28 Feb 31min

She Built It Anyway — Monique Tepe, Spencer Tepe, and Refusing to Be Defined by Abuse

She Built It Anyway — Monique Tepe, Spencer Tepe, and Refusing to Be Defined by Abuse

Spencer mentored kids through Big Brothers Big Sisters. Monique was described as a devoted mother by everyone who knew her. They went to football games. They celebrated birthdays. They built a home. A...

28 Feb 17min

Living With Fear After You Get Out — What Spencer and Monique Tepe Carried Every Day

Living With Fear After You Get Out — What Spencer and Monique Tepe Carried Every Day

Spencer married Monique knowing she was afraid. According to family members, she talked about being terrified of her ex-husband for years. He took that on. He lived in the house that allegedly became ...

27 Feb 12min

The Question That Blames the Wrong Person — Monique Tepe Left McKee in Seven Months

The Question That Blames the Wrong Person — Monique Tepe Left McKee in Seven Months

She recognized it fast. She got out fast. She filed for divorce. She moved. She did everything right. And according to prosecutors, it wasn't enough.This episode takes on the question that every survi...

26 Feb 12min

You Didn't Miss the Red Flags — They Were Designed to Be Invisible | Monique Tepe & McKee

You Didn't Miss the Red Flags — They Were Designed to Be Invisible | Monique Tepe & McKee

The McKee-Tepe relationship looked normal from the outside. Photos. Events. Friends. A medical student and a young professional building a life. Then, allegedly, seven months of living together reveal...

25 Feb 12min

 "At Least He Doesn't Hit Me" — What Coercive Control Looked Like for Monique Tepe

"At Least He Doesn't Hit Me" — What Coercive Control Looked Like for Monique Tepe

"At least he doesn't hit me." That's what millions of people tell themselves to survive another day inside a relationship that's slowly dismantling who they are. No bruises means it's not abuse. No po...

24 Feb 18min

Monique Tepe's Unseen Battle: Fear, Survival, and System Failure

Monique Tepe's Unseen Battle: Fear, Survival, and System Failure

Monique Tepe left her marriage to Michael McKee after approximately seven months. The divorce was finalized in June 2017. According to friends and family who spoke with investigators, the marriage all...

20 Feb 16min

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