Carnal Knowledge: Trauma and Attachment Style with BDSM Interests
Turn Me On9 Aug 2024

Carnal Knowledge: Trauma and Attachment Style with BDSM Interests

Take a walk through a deep, dark, sexy dungeon and you know what you will find? Attachment styles doing what attachment styles do, playing out secure or anxious-attachment, matching lids to every pot, and finding the right configuration to work through deep desires and heal hurts. This week researcher Anna dishes out the Carnal Knowledge determined by a survey study of 771 BDSM and non-BDSM practitioners to explore whether BDSM is a maladaptive coping mechanism in response to early life dynamics. It reveals some interesting little tidbits about community vs private practitioners, attachment styles, and differences in experiences of trauma. Have a listen and a little bit of learning that will help us all to continue to destigmatize conversations about sex and sexual expression.


Link to study:

The Psychology of Kink: a Survey Study into the Relationships of Trauma and Attachment Style with BDSM Interests

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