673: The Unspoken Grief of Pet Sitters with Joni Sullivan

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What do you do when the pets you care for pass away? In this deeply compassionate episode, Collin talks with Pet Loss Bereavement Specialist, Joni Sullivan, about the unique challenges pet professionals face when grieving. They discuss why it can be harder to process loss as a sitter or walker, how to support clients while protecting your own mental health, and what healthy grieving can look like. Joni shares the four stages of healing, creative rituals of remembrance, and how community helps prevent compassion fatigue. Together, they remind us that it's okay to cry—and that reaching out for help is one of the bravest things we can do.

Main topics:

1. Unique grief of pet professionals
2. Healthy grieving and self-care
3. Supporting clients through pet loss
4. Community and emotional support
5. Recognizing compassion fatigue

Main takeaway: "Reaching out for help is one of the bravest things you can do." — Joni Sullivan

In pet care, we're taught to stay strong for others—but that strength can sometimes silence our own needs. When we lose a client's pet or one of our own, it's easy to bury the pain under busy schedules and appointments. But true bravery isn't pretending we're okay—it's letting someone else hold space for us. Whether it's a trusted friend, a fellow sitter, or a support line, reaching out means you're choosing healing over isolation. You're not alone in this work, and you never have to be.

About our guest: Joni Sullivan is a Certified Pet Loss Bereavement Specialist and the owner of Joan of Arc Pet Sitting, serving her community for over 27 years. With decades of experience in pet care, she's passionate about supporting both pet parents and professionals through the complex emotions of grief and loss. Joni facilitates monthly online grief support groups through the National Association of Professional Pet Sitters (NAPPS), creating safe, compassionate spaces for anyone mourning a beloved animal companion.

Links:

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Joan of Arc Pet Sitting – info@joniarkpetsitting.com

NAPPS Pet Loss Support Calls – Open to all pet parents and professionals

• 2nd Wednesday (quarterly): Pet Professionals Group
• 4th Wednesday (monthly): Open Support Group
• National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (U.S.) – Dial 988 or 1-800-273-8255
• International Crisis Lines:
  • Canada: 988 (national)
  • U.K.: Samaritans – 116 123
  • Australia: Lifeline – 13 11 14

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