Ep. 146 - 10 Misconceptions About Pathological Demand Avoidance

Ep. 146 - 10 Misconceptions About Pathological Demand Avoidance

In this episode Clinical Psychologist Dr. Alex Klein and I discuss ten common misconceptions about Pathological Demand Avoidance or Pervasive Drive for Autonomy.

Here are five from Dr. Klein:

  1. The parent of a PDAer is doing something wrong, especially if they've lowered demands.
  2. If a PDA child did something yesterday, they can do it again today.
  3. Accommodations won’t prepare PDA kids for the real world.
  4. Progress made by a PDA child is measured by what we see on the surface.
  5. Behaviorism (behavioral parenting) will be enough.

And here are five from me, in strong collaboration with my PDA 11- and 7-year-olds:

  1. PDA kids are bad kids.
  2. How much freedom PDA kids need.
  3. It's not behavioral, it's stress.
  4. Why and when they can hide nervous system stress.
  5. Potatoes are green and they smell like poop :)

I hope the episode is helpful to you!

xo,

Casey

PS - New to PDA? You can take our free 6-minute quiz to learn how well your child or teen fits the profile.

Denne episoden er hentet fra en åpen RSS-feed og er ikke publisert av Podme. Den kan derfor inneholde annonser.

Episoder(170)

Using the PDA Lens to Change Your Parenting With Pathological Demand Avoidance | Ep. 170

Using the PDA Lens to Change Your Parenting With Pathological Demand Avoidance | Ep. 170

This episode is an excerpt from a lesson inside the Paradigm Shift Program. I'm sharing it because the PDA lens is the foundation that all other skills in my work rest on, and it is not something most...

7 Jul 16min

Addictive Behaviors and the Nervous System in PDA: A Conversation With Jan Winhall | Ep. 169

Addictive Behaviors and the Nervous System in PDA: A Conversation With Jan Winhall | Ep. 169

When I first heard Jan Winhall speak about the intersection of the nervous system and addiction, I immediately thought of the PDA teens and adults in our community who are reaching for substances or e...

30 Jun 52min

Understanding the Root Cause of Pathological Demand Avoidance and Equalizing Behavior | Ep. 168

Understanding the Root Cause of Pathological Demand Avoidance and Equalizing Behavior | Ep. 168

In this episode I share the definition of PDA I use: PDA is a survival drive for autonomy and equality that consistently overrides other survival instincts, including eating, sleeping, toileting, hygi...

23 Jun 21min

School Advocacy for Pathological Demand Avoidance with Dr. Destiny Huff | Ep. 167

School Advocacy for Pathological Demand Avoidance with Dr. Destiny Huff | Ep. 167

If you are a parent who cannot unschool or homeschool your PDA child, or who needs practical support navigating the school system, this episode is for you. I am joined by Dr. Destiny Huff, a licensed ...

16 Jun 49min

Four Ways To Create Calm With Your Pathologically Demand Avoidant Child | Ep. 166

Four Ways To Create Calm With Your Pathologically Demand Avoidant Child | Ep. 166

When he was young, it seemed like my son Cooper was almost always active and agitated. I tried everything I was told to try - bubble blowing for deep breathing, emotion naming, zones of regulation, na...

9 Jun 53min

A PDA Neuropsychologist on How Pathologically Demand Avoidant Brains Actually Work | Ep. 165

A PDA Neuropsychologist on How Pathologically Demand Avoidant Brains Actually Work | Ep. 165

I sit down with Dr. Jennifer Huffman, a board-certified pediatric neuropsychologist, PDA woman with lived experience, and creator of the Neurodynamic Navigator System and the Neurodynamic Quotient. Af...

2 Jun 1h 2min

How A Dad Changed His Parenting To Stop Fighting His Child With Pathological Demand Avoidance: An Interview With My Husband | Ep. 164

How A Dad Changed His Parenting To Stop Fighting His Child With Pathological Demand Avoidance: An Interview With My Husband | Ep. 164

This episode is an interview with my husband, Jake, about his path from well-founded skepticism of Pathological Demand Avoidance to fully changing his parenting to support our two PDA sons, and how th...

26 Mai 57min

Giftedness, Pathological Demand Avoidance and Burnout in Adults: My Story | Ep. 163

Giftedness, Pathological Demand Avoidance and Burnout in Adults: My Story | Ep. 163

In this episode I talk about how I understand my autistic brain, my internalized pathological demand avoidance, and why it took me six years of working in this space before I felt certain enough to sa...

19 Mai 49min

Populært innen For unge lyttere

rss-skravla-gar
min-barneoppdragelse
vitnemal
foreldreradet
er-det-noe-liv-med-nora-angeltveit
snipp-snapp-snute
jordmorpodden-om-graviditet-fodsel-og-barseltid
gravid-uke-for-uke
plutselig-barneteater
uroskolen
fodselspodden
familieliv
rss-maren-mina
rss-matrescence-med-marte-og-nora
eventyr-for-barn-pa-flukt
rss-gravidpodden-uke-for-uke
babyverden
fantorangenfortellinger
mamma-jobber
rss-fertilitetsradet