Is the Horse World Acting like a Cult? with Sharon Madere | Sponsored by YETI

Is the Horse World Acting like a Cult? with Sharon Madere | Sponsored by YETI

You might know this feeling all too well. You want to trust your feel, keep growing, and do right by your horse, yet something in the culture makes you hesitate. Questioning a method or following your instincts can feel dangerous, like one honest moment could cost you belonging, spark backlash, or even put a target on your back.

In this episode, Sharon Madere, an equine behavior consultant and cult survivor, brings a special combination of lived experience and scientific expertise to help riders reclaim their clarity, confidence, and curiosity. As a lifelong horsewoman, she understands the mechanics of influence, pressure, and obedience in ways most people never articulate. And she applies that perspective directly to the horse world in a way that is both affirming and liberating.

In this conversation, you will learn:

  • The clear signs of cult-like leadership in horse communities
  • Why emotionally charged language like disrespect or naughty derails presence and erodes confidence
  • How to stay grounded, think critically, and avoid manipulation as a student or owner
  • Practical tips on training, positive reinforcement, and making better choices for you AND your horse
  • Why empowerment and curiosity matter more than any "guru"

Sharon also shares practical strategies for safer, clearer horsemanship, from building boundaries in a herd to teaching effective trailer loading. It is a conversation that blends science, psychology, and lived wisdom into something every rider can immediately apply.

Resources and Mentions:

Chapters:

  • 00:00 Is the Horse World Acting Like a Cult?
  • 02:10 Sharon's Story: Growing Up in a Religious Cult
  • 08:45 How Cult Psychology Works
  • 15:20 Authority Culture in Horse Training
  • 21:30 The Danger of "Disrespect" in Horsemanship
  • 28:40 When Riders Stop Trusting Their Intuition
  • 35:15 Science vs Dogma in Equine Behavior
  • 43:00 Reclaiming Critical Thinking in the Horse World
  • 50:00 What Needs to Change

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