Ep. 149 - Mom Can't Get To Her Bedroom Without Causing A Meltdown For 10-Year-Old PDAer

Ep. 149 - Mom Can't Get To Her Bedroom Without Causing A Meltdown For 10-Year-Old PDAer

In this episode I coach a mom of a 10-year-old PDAer who is in burnout (Pathological Demand Avoidance / Pervasive Drive for Autonomy). The child loves to cook and bake but has a meltdown if family members clean up after her while she’s in the kitchen.

She also melts down if others pass by her bedroom on the way to their own, which her mom has to do if she’s going to clean the kitchen after her daughter leaves.

We talked through if Obsessive Compulsive Disorder was also present, but decided to focus on working through the PDA lens.

We then used our decision making framework to determine how the mother could manage their bedtime routine in a way that would be more pleasant for everyone.

I hope you find the conversations helpful. It's from Parenting PDA Your Way, the show we stream live on our social media on Fridays at 1pm ET.

xo,

Casey

PS - New to PDA? You can take our free 6-minute quiz to learn how well your child or teen fits the profile.

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PDA and Restrictive Eating: Practical Autonomy-Based Tools for Families Stuck in Food Struggles | Ep. 160

PDA and Restrictive Eating: Practical Autonomy-Based Tools for Families Stuck in Food Struggles | Ep. 160

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Ep. 159 - Eating and PDA Part 2: 10 Misconceptions About Eating And Pathological Demand Avoidance

Ep. 159 - Eating and PDA Part 2: 10 Misconceptions About Eating And Pathological Demand Avoidance

In this episode — Part 2 of our series on eating and PDA — I walk through the 10 misconceptions about eating that I personally had to unlearn in order to help my son. These are beliefs that are comple...

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Ep. 158 - Eating and PDA Part 1: My Son Only Ate Three Foods

Ep. 158 - Eating and PDA Part 1: My Son Only Ate Three Foods

If your child has dropped food after food, won't try new things no matter what you do, and every mealtime feels like a battle — this episode is the first in a four-part series where I get personal.I'm...

14 Apr 37min

Ep. 157 - Getting Husband and Parents On Board with Pathological Demand Avoidance

Ep. 157 - Getting Husband and Parents On Board with Pathological Demand Avoidance

In this episode, I coach Danielle, a mom from North Idaho who is newer to the PDA lens and has already been making progress with her almost nine-year-old son — but is running into resistance from her ...

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Ep. 156 - Parenting Pathologically Demand Avoidant Twins: Socialization, Equalizing, and Radical Acceptance

Ep. 156 - Parenting Pathologically Demand Avoidant Twins: Socialization, Equalizing, and Radical Acceptance

In this episode, I coach Pam, a mom from Vancouver Island, British Columbia, who has 10-year-old fraternal twin boys — both PDA and autistic, one also with ADHD — plus a younger neurotypical child. Pa...

31 Mar 54min

Ep. 155 - When Twins Progress Differently With Pathological Demand Avoidance

Ep. 155 - When Twins Progress Differently With Pathological Demand Avoidance

In this episode I speak with Pam, a mother of twin PDA 10-year-olds and a third younger sibling.Pam has been parenting through a PDA lens for years, but one of the twins is having a harder time than t...

24 Mar 1h 1min

Ep. 154 - Entrepreneurship and Pathological Demand Avoidance

Ep. 154 - Entrepreneurship and Pathological Demand Avoidance

In this episode I speak with Christopher Deutsch, a PDA angel investor about his own life and the how some of the common traits of PDA can be beneficial to a career in entrepreneurialism.I loved havin...

17 Mar 1h 11min

Ep. 153 - Helping Mom With Substance Abuse of Teen with Pathological Demand Avoidance

Ep. 153 - Helping Mom With Substance Abuse of Teen with Pathological Demand Avoidance

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