THE "O.N. CONTACT" RULE: Handling a Narcissist When You Can't Walk Away completely đŸ›ĄïžđŸ€

THE "O.N. CONTACT" RULE: Handling a Narcissist When You Can't Walk Away completely đŸ›ĄïžđŸ€

"Just go No Contact!" feels like a slap in the face when you have shared custody, a business, or legal ties to a narcissist.For many survivors, complete severance isn't an option. But that doesn't mean you have to remain their emotional punching bag. As a self-aware narcissist, I know exactly how we use children, finances, and property as leverage to keep getting "supply" long after the relationship ends.In this video, I’m introducing the "O.N. Contact" (Only Necessary Contact) method. This is the strategic evolution of "Gray Rock," designed specifically for those who are forced to communicate with their abuser.All My Links (Coaching, Courses, Merch): https://link.me/mentalhealnessIN THIS VIDEO, WE DISCUSS:The Narcissist’s Leverage: Why they use the kids or money to bait you into emotional arguments.Defining "Necessary": How to strip every ounce of personality and emotion out of your communication.The "Hostile Coworker" Mindset: Shifting from "ex-partner" to "business associate that I hate."Communication Protocols: Why you must move everything to email or parenting apps (and never phone calls).The Extinction Burst: How they will react when you stop feeding them supply through co-parenting chaos.You can't always leave the situation, but you can leave the dynamic.RESOURCES & SUPPORT: 📚 Self Love Journal: https://a.co/d/70L3zKb 📖 Kid’s Book ("It's Not Your Fault"): https://a.co/d/2WNtdKJ 📧 Newsletter: subscribepage.io/mentalhealnessWHO IS LEE HAMMOCK? I am a diagnosed narcissist who has spent over 8 years in psychotherapy to understand my own mind and help you protect yours. On this channel, I take the mask off to show you how narcissists think, why we do what we do, and how you can heal from the damage.Join the Community: www.youtube.com/channel/UCm1vYQOEQRo6X4Dy8KoGPMw/join

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THE ORPHAN OPTION: Going No Contact With a Toxic Family Tree

THE ORPHAN OPTION: Going No Contact With a Toxic Family Tree

"But they’re your family..."It’s the phrase that keeps people trapped in cycles of abuse for decades. But what happens when the people who were supposed to protect you are the ones you need protection...

12 Mar 24min

How do narcissist act when they drunk?

How do narcissist act when they drunk?

Does the narcissist in your life become a completely different person when they drink, or are you finally seeing who they really are? Many people believe that alcohol "changes" the narcissist, but fro...

11 Mar 12min

The Aggressive Hook: How Male Narcissists Are Created: The Origin Story

The Aggressive Hook: How Male Narcissists Are Created: The Origin Story

Have you ever wondered if narcissists are born that way or if life made them that way? Today, we are doing a full "workup" on how male narcissists are created. As a diagnosed narcissist who has spent ...

10 Mar 10min

WHY THEY WANT THE CHASE: How Pursuing a Narcissist Validates the Ab*se

WHY THEY WANT THE CHASE: How Pursuing a Narcissist Validates the Ab*se

"If I’m still chasing, they must be worth it... right?"Wrong. As a self-aware narcissist, I’m telling you the truth about what happens in our heads when you pursue us after we’ve treated you like tras...

9 Mar 29min

The Top 5 Excuses Narcissists Use to Escape Accountability

The Top 5 Excuses Narcissists Use to Escape Accountability

Have you ever tried to hold a narcissist accountable, only to end up being the one apologizing? That isn't an accident. Narcissists have a specific set of excuses they use to deflect, distract, and de...

8 Mar 13min

THE BACKFIRE: Why Narcissists Rage When You Actually Leave

THE BACKFIRE: Why Narcissists Rage When You Actually Leave

"Get out then!"It’s what they’ve been saying for weeks. They’ve devalued you, ignored you, and treated you like a burden until you finally had enough and packed your bags. But instead of the relief yo...

7 Mar 29min

Pain Shopping: Why You Can't Stop Checking the Narcissist's Social Media

Pain Shopping: Why You Can't Stop Checking the Narcissist's Social Media

Are you addicted to "Pain Shopping"? In this video, self-aware narcissist Lee Hammock explains why survivors compulsively check their ex's social media and how narcissists use their profiles as a weap...

6 Mar 13min

THE FINAL DISCARD: Do Narcissists Ever Truly Leave You Alone?

THE FINAL DISCARD: Do Narcissists Ever Truly Leave You Alone?

"Will this ever end?"Channel Memberships For More perks- www.youtube.com/channel/UCm1vYQOEQRo6X4Dy8KoGPMw/joinIt’s the question that keeps you up at night. You’ve gone No Contact, you’ve blocked the n...

4 Mar 26min

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