117: Choosing family in a culture of “having it all”

117: Choosing family in a culture of “having it all”

In this episode, I share a deeply personal reflection on turning 40, living in the in-between without a home, and what it has taught me about identity, nervous system regulation, and belonging. I talk about choosing family over constant movement, how simplifying life has changed my relationship to desire and sexuality, and why prioritizing both quality and quantity time with children feels radically countercultural.

We explore the grief and surrender that come with big life transitions, the myth of “having it all,” and how motherhood reshaped my values, attachment patterns, and sense of self. This episode is an honest look at choosing a slower, more rooted life—and finding pleasure, intimacy, and aliveness inside it.

In this episode:

  • Turning 40 and living in the “messy middle” without a home

  • Stress, caffeine, and how they affect mood, libido, and arousal

  • Roots, family, and community as nervous system support

  • Motherhood as identity shift—and choosing a slower, simpler life

  • Quality + quantity time with kids, and why it feels countercultural

  • Letting go of “having it all” while still staying connected to desire

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124: Crowding out negativity with love - a simple everyday practice

124: Crowding out negativity with love - a simple everyday practice

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123. Leaking, orgasms & pussy strength: A pelvic floor Q&A

123. Leaking, orgasms & pussy strength: A pelvic floor Q&A

In this Q&A episode, I answer a listener's question: what does peeing when you sneeze tell you about your sexual health? We dive into the connection between the pelvic floor, pleasure, orgasms, core s...

30 Jun 21min

122: From hot preggo life to cold postpartum: finding your way back to desire

122: From hot preggo life to cold postpartum: finding your way back to desire

In this Q&A episode, I answer a listener’s question about moving from a hot, connected sex life during pregnancy to feeling completely disconnected from desire in postpartum. I talk about why this shi...

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121: We bought a house + a story about my marriage, patience, trust, and surrender

121: We bought a house + a story about my marriage, patience, trust, and surrender

In this episode, I share the personal big news: we bought a house. I talk about why having a home with a garden has meant so much to me, how long and stressful the process has been, and what it brough...

3 Jun 30min

120: Why you are sexually disconnected (and how to come back to yourself)

120: Why you are sexually disconnected (and how to come back to yourself)

In this episode, I unpack what it really means to feel sexually disconnected and disempowered as a woman. I explore why so many women feel numb, shut down, resentful, bored, or distant from their sexu...

20 Apr 29min

119: Not in the mood for sex? Let’s talk alternatives

119: Not in the mood for sex? Let’s talk alternatives

In this episode, I explore the nuance of sexual intimacy in long-term relationships and what it really means to meet each other in desire, even when you’re not fully “in the mood.” I share the deeper ...

2 Apr 25min

118: rest and relaxation – essential for well being and PLEASURE

118: rest and relaxation – essential for well being and PLEASURE

In this episode, I explore the art of relaxation and why so many women struggle to truly rest. I share my personal journey of moving out of “go-go girl mode,” how quitting caffeine changed my relation...

17 Mar 24min

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