When You’re the Calm… but You’re Not Calm

When You’re the Calm… but You’re Not Calm

A compassionate, science-backed conversation about what happens when neurodivergent parents want to be the calm for their kids… but their own nervous system is completely overwhelmed.

In this episode, we explore:
✨ why ND parents reach their limits faster
✨ the physiology, psychology, neurology, and biology behind dysregulation
✨ why losing your calm isn’t failure, it’s a nervous system asking for support
✨ the power of repair, honesty, and self-compassion

We’re also featuring our Small Biz Shoutout of the week!
This episode spotlights the beautiful children’s book “I’ve Got You,” created to help kids understand big feelings through connection, safety, and emotional modeling.
Follow on Instagram: @ive_got_you_childrens_book
Find the book on Amazon: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1036905918?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cso_cp_apin_dp_T00K4KJ2T7BT28MBSDB5

And at the end of the episode, you’ll find a gentle journaling prompt to help you reflect with softness instead of shame.

Whether this is your first time listening or you’ve been here from the beginning... I’m so grateful you’re here. 💛✨
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Cognitive Dissonance Explained: Why Your Brain Chooses Comfort Over Truth

Cognitive Dissonance Explained: Why Your Brain Chooses Comfort Over Truth

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From Control to Connection: Why Behavior Isn’t What You Think with Gabriel Hannans

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Welcome back to your newest obsession - The NeuroSpicy MomPod 💖In today’s episode, I’m joined by Gabriel Hannans, a special education teacher, registered behavior technician, author of Parent Behavio...

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The Myth of “Looking Neurodivergent

The Myth of “Looking Neurodivergent

“You don’t look neurodivergent.”If you’ve ever heard that or felt like your struggles weren’t “visible enough” to be taken seriously...this episode is for you.In this episode of The NeuroSpicy MomPod,...

8 Apr 17min

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In this episode, we’re breaking down the difference between growth mindset and fixed mindset—and how the way we speak to ourselves shapes what we believe is possible.We explore where these beliefs com...

1 Apr 14min

Are We Educating… or Conditioning? The Truth About Modern Schooling with Olivia Couch

Are We Educating… or Conditioning? The Truth About Modern Schooling with Olivia Couch

Before we dive in, a quick note 💛The audio and video are slightly out of sync in parts of this episode. Thank you for your patience and understanding as you listen through!Also, I want to acknowledge...

24 Mar 49min

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