existential spirals, bad dating app experiences & our thoughts on taylor swift’s new album — ep 13
Fingers Crossed7 Okt 2025

existential spirals, bad dating app experiences & our thoughts on taylor swift’s new album — ep 13

this week’s episode has range. meg’s recovering from pharyngitis, erica has a less-than-ideal dating experience that somehow turns into a full-blown existential spiral about life stages, self-image, and how people (and exes) might see her.


we talk about the messy overlap between mental health, dating, and self-worth, how it feels to be “behind” when you’re just trying to hold it together, and why sometimes you just need a dramatic cry in your bedroom.


then we close things out with our thoughts on taylor swift’s new album the life of a showgirl — as long-time fans, we’ve got opinions.



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chapters:

00:00 intro

01:12 meg’s sick

07:35 soup tangent

12:10 erica’s dating app story

17:09 existential crisis around dating

21:13 pregnancy spiral

30:42 existential crisis continued

41:35 taylor swift’s the life of a showgirl thoughts

01:01:27 outro

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