#157 Boundaries That Heal vs. Boundaries That Punish
After betrayal, boundaries become one of the most talked about — and most misunderstood — parts of healing. Many couples find themselves stuck in painful cycles where boundaries meant to create safety...
30 Apr 23min
#156 Anger After Betrayal — What It Really Means & How to Work With It with Matt Wenger, LPC, CSAT, CCPS
Anger is one of the most misunderstood emotions in betrayal trauma — but still shapes every interaction, every conversation, and every attempt at repair.In this powerful conversation, I’m joined by Ma...
23 Apr 41min
#155 Resolving the Push-Pull Dynamic of the Trauma Bond with Dr. Nima Rahmany
In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nima Rahmany to unpack the push-pull dynamic that so many couples experience after betrayal or relational trauma.He explains how our nervous system shifts between ...
16 Apr 49min
#154 Healing Fatigue After Betrayal: When You’re Both Just Tired
After betrayal, many couples expect the hardest part to be the initial crisis. But what often comes next is something quieter—and just as real: healing fatigue.In this episode, we talk about what happ...
9 Apr 15min
#153 Staying or Leaving After Betrayal — Discernment for Both Partners
After betrayal, one of the most painful questions couples face is: Do we stay… or do we leave?In this episode, we explore why that question feels so urgent after betrayal—and why clarity rarely comes ...
2 Apr 13min
#152 The Individual Healing That Saved Our Marriage with Chance and Crystal
Today we’re talking about something that can feel counterintuitive when a relationship is in crisis: slowing down and focusing on individual healing first. So many couples rush to fix the relationship...
26 Mar 48min
#150 What Accountability Actually Means After Betrayal (And What It Doesn’t)
Accountability is one of the most talked-about — and most misunderstood — parts of betrayal recovery.For many couples healing after infidelity or sexual betrayal, the word accountability can feel load...
12 Mar 15min
