25: Neurodiversity Celebration Week Special Episode: Neurodivergent allyship & affirming resources with Adelle Sushames

What does truly neuroaffirming support look like in practice?

In this insightful episode of Neurodivergent Pulse (and special episode for Neurodiversity Celebration Week), Laetitia sits down with psychologist and resource creator Adelle Sushames, founder of Neurodivergent Ally.

With nearly two decades of experience in psychology and the last decade focused exclusively on Autism and ADHD assessments and support, Adelle shares how frustration with outdated, deficit-based resources led her to create tools that genuinely reflect neurodivergent experiences.

Together, they explore the concept of spoons and energy, the importance of neuroaffirming language, and how tools like Adelle’s card decks help children, teens, adults, and families better understand their needs.

This episode is a powerful reminder that communication, understanding and allyship are at the heart of supporting neurodivergent individuals.

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KEY TAKEAWAYS 👇

🧠 What neurodiversity-affirming practice really means beyond training or theory

🧠 Why outdated resources and language can harm neurodivergent individuals

🧠 How spoon theory helps explain energy limits and capacity

🧠 Why autism is not a linear spectrum but a dynamic wheel of experiences

🧠 The importance of recognising missed diagnoses, especially among girls, women and adults

🧠 How tools like card decks can support communication, reflection and self-understanding

🧠 Why allyship from families, professionals and communities matters in creating neuroinclusive spaces

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ABOUT THE GUEST 👇

Adelle Sushames is a psychologist with 18 years of experience, the last decade of which has focused exclusively on Autism and ADHD assessments and therapeutic supports.

Adelle is also the creator of a range of widely used neuroaffirming resources including:

• ND Me

• Spoon Thieves

• Spoon Savers

• Spoons @ School

These tools help neurodivergent individuals explore energy, needs and challenges in ways that support communication and understanding across home, school and therapy settings.

Her work is informed by both professional expertise and lived experience. Adelle was diagnosed AuDHD in her early 40s, deepening her commitment to creating resources that truly reflect neurodivergent lives.

She is also the author of the children’s book:

📘 Strong and Sensitive: A Tiger Tale about Autism and ADHD (for ages 5–12)

Through her platform Neurodivergent Ally, Adelle supports families, clinicians and educators in building more affirming environments for neurodivergent people.

💻 Website: https://www.neurodivergentally.com/

📸 Instagram: @neurodivergent_ally

ABOUT THE HOST 👇

Laetitia Andrac (Autistic & ADHDer) is an award-winning entrepreneur, international speaker, and podcast host.

She is the bestselling author of Light It: How to Trust Your Intuition and Build a Thriving Business. With over 15 years of experience in consulting, strategy, and innovation, Laetitia has worked with industry leaders like Deloitte and Telstra.

Inspired by my journey as a neurodivergent parent, she co-founded Understanding Zoe, an AI-driven solution dedicated to supporting caregivers of neurodivergent children.

Her passion is creating a more neuroinclusive world, where everyone can thrive—whether in their homes, communities, or workplaces.