SS 254: The Pursuit of Playmates & Lovers in Swinging & Polyamory

SS 254: The Pursuit of Playmates & Lovers in Swinging & Polyamory

How do you find other swingers? How do you find people to date? Those top a list of frequent questions we get on the Swingset. As outsiders looking in, as people curious to get started, we all wonder if we'll be able to do this, because there's that foreign concept in the middle. Finding people to fuck. Finding people to date. Finding people not just okay with open, but enthusiastic about it. Tonight, we talk about the pursuit, finding playmates, finding lovers.

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Today's podcast featured music from Rogue, titled Imperfect Views, and from Botnek and I See MONSTAS titled Deeper Love, remixed by Xan Griffin.

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SS 029: Porn, Bisexuals, Anal Sex, Opening Up, and Tristan Taormino

SS 029: Porn, Bisexuals, Anal Sex, Opening Up, and Tristan Taormino

In Ep 29, the Swingset tries very hard not to simply gush over their biggest crush, Tristan Taormino, as she joins us for a discussion of the time writing porn, her thoughts on bisexuality in the lifestyle and in film, her book Opening Up, and putting things in hers and other people's asses.

4 Feb 20111h 4min

SS 028: Sexual Erotic Nutrition and Sex At Dawn – An Interview With Christopher Ryan (Part 2)

SS 028: Sexual Erotic Nutrition and Sex At Dawn – An Interview With Christopher Ryan (Part 2)

In Ep 28, the Swingset's interview with Christopher Ryan, author of the bestselling book Sex At Dawn which challenges the idea that monogamy is natural and ingrained in human beings, continues. We discuss whether or not there's hope for America's dawning sexuality, tours, future books, swinger parties and more.

21 Jan 201143min

SS 027: Bonobo Porn and Sex at Dawn – An Interview With Christopher Ryan (Part 1)

SS 027: Bonobo Porn and Sex at Dawn – An Interview With Christopher Ryan (Part 1)

On Ep 27, the Swingset interviews Christopher Ryan, author of the bestselling book Sex At Dawn which challenges the idea that monogamy is natural and ingrained in human beings. We discuss bonobos, a species that sexually is far more similar to us than chimpanzees, and the very porn-like videos of this species enjoying themselves. We postulate that the matriarchal societies described in Sex At Dawn are very reflective of the swinging and polyamorous lifestyles

13 Jan 201145min

SS 026: Auld Lang Syne – An Orgy, A Game, An Epiphany, & A Ritual

SS 026: Auld Lang Syne – An Orgy, A Game, An Epiphany, & A Ritual

Episode 26 is a time of reflection for us as The Swingset celebrates the end of its first year of existence. We discuss what we've learned along the way, talk about the orgy Cooper and Marilyn threw for Ginger and the Professor where the crew beta tested a new game from Great Sex Games, Dylan discusses his swinger epiphanies, Shira shares a New Years Eve ritual, and we enjoy each other's company thoroughly. Join us for the last show of 2010!

30 Des 201058min

SS 025: Where Do They Get Those Wonderful Sex Toys? – Part 2

SS 025: Where Do They Get Those Wonderful Sex Toys? – Part 2

The Swingset crew discuss their favorite sex toys of the year and the most unusual sex toys they've ever used in our Holiday Buying Guide podcast

16 Des 201046min

SS 024: Where Do They Get Those Wonderful Sex Toys – Part 1

SS 024: Where Do They Get Those Wonderful Sex Toys – Part 1

The Swingset crew discuss their first sex toys and experiences and talk about their favorite sex toys of the year in our Holiday Buying Guide podcast

10 Des 20101h 1min

SS 023: Coming Out With Kendra Holliday

SS 023: Coming Out With Kendra Holliday

In Life on the Swingset, The Podcast: Ep 23, we spend a long evening with our friend Kendra Holliday, who on National Coming Out day, revealed her identity to the world on her website The Beautiful Kind. Over the course of an hour and a half, we talk with Kendra about the time since she came out to the world, the difficulties she's had with her community and her ex husband, and how it feels to be a source of sex positive information in a difficult world. We then move beyond to our own feelings about coming out as swingers, polyamorous, non-monogamous, or even simply sex positive

24 Nov 20101h 37min

SS 022: Bisexuality and You – Part 2

SS 022: Bisexuality and You – Part 2

In Ep 22, we wrap up our big discussion about male and female bisexuality, crossing our way into pansexuality and omnisexuality and everything in between. We discuss the journey of the bisexual male, the evolution of acceptance (and hotness) of the bisexual female, the stereotypes and biases against both and the growing need for non-monogamy

19 Nov 201043min

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