SS 263: Let's Get Sexting - Dirty Talk and Naked Pics

SS 263: Let's Get Sexting - Dirty Talk and Naked Pics

We all send dirty comments, dirty pictures, full on sext-travaganzas with our partners, playmates, friends straddling the edge of naughty. Tonight we're joined by the Swinging MILF herself, Sally Swings to talk about sending each other dirty pictures and messages through sexting.

Today's episode of Life on the Swingset is sponsored by Better Than the Hand, a website that aims to deconstruct stigma and toxicity surrounding male sexuality and masturbation through articles, blogs, toy reviews, and an online store.

The Swingset crew starts by discussing the difference between different types of sexting, "the tease", and the "taking it to completion" type, and how sexting is often compatible with our every day busy lives because we're always on the go. Sexting gives us a charge, a kick, it's something that we bring back to our partners.

Sally and Dylan commiserate over being in private photo groups when men complain how their photos only get a couple likes, while women's photos get tens or hundreds. Cooper poses the thought that unsolicited dick pics and the general dick pic "economy" gives pretty extreme incentives to women willing to share, and that because of a scarcity of that kind of photo, men swarm and ... create disincentives to sharing. Dylan discusses unsolicited dick pics as men seeking power, and as a full frontal assault on someone, while simultaneously causing men whose dick pics are refused to act aghast, as if their pics are a gift to the world and should be accepted unconditionally. Cooper decides it'd be funny to try and flood Dylan's inbox with topless photos so, in that spirit, listeners... email Dylan at dylan@lifeontheswingset.com and send him your topless pics! He consents on behalf of Dylan, Dylan indicates a measure of exasperated agreement with that given consent. R.I.P. his inbox.

In episode business, Cooper has finally finished writing his second swinging novel! Dylan brings up the We-Vibe lawsuit and feels strongly about companies collecting more information than people have really volunteered to give.

Ars Technica: Sex Toys and the Internet of Things Collide: What Could Go Wrong?

The Guardian: Tech Company Accused of Collecting Details of How Customers Use Sex Toys

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Today's podcast featured music by:

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SS 286: Making Porn: The Sexy, the Silly, & The Mundane, with Kate Sinclaire

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SS 285: Keeping it Sexy in Unsexy Times

SS 285: Keeping it Sexy in Unsexy Times

We've all had the experience of life getting in the way of our sexy. Sometimes life pounds us with things that try to compel us to STAY DOWN. Tonight, Ginger Bentham returns and joins Mike Joseph, Dir...

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SS 284: The Non-Monogamy Renaissance w/ Andre Shakti

SS 284: The Non-Monogamy Renaissance w/ Andre Shakti

Non-monogamy is riding a wave. Recently CNN had a positive article about the fact that more and more young people are choosing some flavor non-monogamy over traditional relationship forms. Awareness c...

20 Apr 201758min

SS Special: Cooper and Ginger Talk Approaching the Swingularity

SS Special: Cooper and Ginger Talk Approaching the Swingularity

Ginger continues the two-year tradition by sitting down with Cooper for a frank and intimate discussion about his new novel Approaching the Swingularity: Tales of Swinging & Polyamory, toxic masculini...

15 Apr 20171h 5min

SS Off Week: April 2017

SS Off Week: April 2017

Hey Swingset Fans, Dylan Thomas here. It's an off week for the Swingset. We're going to schedule these in every so often because you know what... it's nice to have a week off. Just... pretend I'm stic...

12 Apr 20171min

SS 283: Ethical Unicorn Hunting in Swinging & Polyamory - Life on the Swingset

SS 283: Ethical Unicorn Hunting in Swinging & Polyamory - Life on the Swingset

While many people enter into non-monogamy when already "coupled," there are some ways that folks approach this transition that can make folks like me feel more like prey than people. While there's not...

5 Apr 20171h 29min

SS 282: Playing with Disability w/ Andrew Gurza

SS 282: Playing with Disability w/ Andrew Gurza

When we talk about privilege, it's usually a matter of race and class, and boils down to us not seeing or not even knowing to look for the issues that others face. Andrew Gurza, our guest tonight, is ...

29 Mar 20171h 10min

SS 281: Finding and Being Community Role Models w/ Kevin Patterson

SS 281: Finding and Being Community Role Models w/ Kevin Patterson

There is a sort of order from chaos that happens when like minded people discover others like themselves. Individuals become clusters, clusters become groups, and with groups come unavoidable growing ...

22 Mar 20171h 38min

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