SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must climb to be successful, In discussing how to raise everyone's game we focused on the fact that many single cis straight men ruin it for everyone as they're everywhere and generally not well behaved. In describing them we used a phrase coined by Madeleine Holden to describe it: "Dick is Abundant & Low Value". Alana Massey expanded on that thought and wrote The Dickonomics of Tinder, a comprehensive treatise on the low expectations game,

Bex Caputo joins Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas to discuss how the phrase came into use, why it's useful, and the implications of its use.

While we spoke, we mentioned Billy Procida by reputation. Dylan decided to mention him by name and reference both his blog, "You're Not An Ally, You're An Asshole" and a Storify of people who've been negatively affected by interactions.

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SS 192: Gang Bang The Mailbag 18 - Dirty Talk, A Cyber Sex Orgy, Male Multiple Orgasms, and Does Poly Work?

SS 192: Gang Bang The Mailbag 18 - Dirty Talk, A Cyber Sex Orgy, Male Multiple Orgasms, and Does Poly Work?

It's a new year and there are new questions in the mailbag, even a few voicemails! Tonight on Life on the Swingset, the podcast, we gang bang the mailbag as this series turns 18. We discuss some newbi...

14 Jan 20151h 3min

SS 191:  My Life on the Swingset - Ginger Sits Down With Cooper to Talk About The Book Launch

SS 191: My Life on the Swingset - Ginger Sits Down With Cooper to Talk About The Book Launch

Ginger sits down with Cooper for a one-on-one discussion of his book My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory, recorded on the day of launch. Give us a call and leave a voicemail at...

7 Jan 201549min

SS 190: Consent is Emotional Lube

SS 190: Consent is Emotional Lube

Consent shouldn't be something we have to teach, It's the simplest thing in the world, ask before you touch. But beyond that, consent is involved in so many aspects of our non-monogamous lives, that l...

7 Jan 201550min

SS 189: Another Year on the Swingset - 2014, the Year That Was

SS 189: Another Year on the Swingset - 2014, the Year That Was

We look back at 2014, what was a year of aggressive expansion for The Swingset, to talk about Desire, going to conferences, teaching classes, getting married, using new dildos like the awesome Tantus ...

30 Des 20141h 9min

SS 188: Ghosts of Non-Monogamy Past - A Swingset Holiday Special

SS 188: Ghosts of Non-Monogamy Past - A Swingset Holiday Special

In an episode that has been attempted every year since the beginning, we reflect on days of non-monogamy gone by, talking about our bloopers and issues and funny times and sad times, and recognize all...

24 Des 20141h 21min

SS 187: Good Men Everywhere

SS 187: Good Men Everywhere

As a lifestyle that is outside the mainstream, ethical non-monogamy tends to attract humans who are outside the mainstream. This certainly goes for the men...men who treat women as equals...men who ar...

17 Des 20141h 32min

SS 186: Women, Sex, and Shame, with Elle Chase

SS 186: Women, Sex, and Shame, with Elle Chase

When the topic of sexual shame comes up, nowhere is it greater than the institutionalized shame heaped upon the women of the world, asked to be both hypersexual and aesexual simultaneously. Tonight we...

12 Des 201458min

SS 185: Swingin' Around the Swingset - Recorded Live at Desire Resort & Spa

SS 185: Swingin' Around the Swingset - Recorded Live at Desire Resort & Spa

Heidi and Danny from the Swingin' Around podcast take Cooper aside for a little chat in the heart of paradise and discuss their experiences during their second visit to the resort. They talk massages,...

3 Des 20141h 1min

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