SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must climb to be successful, In discussing how to raise everyone's game we focused on the fact that many single cis straight men ruin it for everyone as they're everywhere and generally not well behaved. In describing them we used a phrase coined by Madeleine Holden to describe it: "Dick is Abundant & Low Value". Alana Massey expanded on that thought and wrote The Dickonomics of Tinder, a comprehensive treatise on the low expectations game,

Bex Caputo joins Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas to discuss how the phrase came into use, why it's useful, and the implications of its use.

While we spoke, we mentioned Billy Procida by reputation. Dylan decided to mention him by name and reference both his blog, "You're Not An Ally, You're An Asshole" and a Storify of people who've been negatively affected by interactions.

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SS 152: DP, DVP, and DAP - The Double Penetration Spectacular

SS 152: DP, DVP, and DAP - The Double Penetration Spectacular

Today, we discuss double penetration, double vaginal penetration, and double anal penetration, and not just the acts themselves. The act of any sort of double penetration requires thoughtfulness, plan...

2 Apr 20141h 13min

SS 151: Sex Work, Education, & Non-Monogamy with Guest Sabrina Morgan

SS 151: Sex Work, Education, & Non-Monogamy with Guest Sabrina Morgan

Sabrina Morgan is a tireless advocate for sex workers’ rights and education on sex work. Having experience as a sex worker herself, as well as practicing ethical non-monogamy presents its own unique s...

24 Mar 20141h 1min

SS 150: Dealing With Shame Around Sexuality, Swinging, & Polyamory With Guest Charlie Glickman

SS 150: Dealing With Shame Around Sexuality, Swinging, & Polyamory With Guest Charlie Glickman

Shame, it creeps up on us, sometimes out of nowhere and sometimes as a slow buildup but it can affect our sexuality in ways we don't expect and don't want. Sometimes tackling shame head on helps, some...

12 Mar 20141h 21min

SS 149: Designing and Defining your Non-Monogamous Relationship

SS 149: Designing and Defining your Non-Monogamous Relationship

How do you handle new relationships now that you’re non-monogamous? It’s like turning a cruise ship around, climbing a mountain, and a myriad of other metaphors. We have long talked about taking your ...

4 Mar 20141h 7min

SS 148: Take It Like A Man: An Introduction to Pegging, Recorded Live at the Tool Shed!

SS 148: Take It Like A Man: An Introduction to Pegging, Recorded Live at the Tool Shed!

Pegging: The act of a female giving anal sex to a male using a strap-on. Some couples enjoy the power reversal of this and some guys simply just like it up the arse. How do we do it? What are the righ...

26 Feb 20141h 27min

SS 147: Build Your Own Orgy - How To Have Sex With Many People at Once

SS 147: Build Your Own Orgy - How To Have Sex With Many People at Once

Masturbation is awesome, isn’t it? Sex for two, few would argue, is even better. Threesomes are roundly considered to be one of the epitome’s of the sexual experience. Let’s add a few more to that, sh...

10 Feb 20141h

SS 146: Sexcations - Travelling to Swing With Friends

SS 146: Sexcations - Travelling to Swing With Friends

Swing With Friends! ... except sometimes the distance between those friends is enough to qualify the trip as more of a sexcation instead of a normal date. Whether because we live in less populated are...

3 Feb 201458min

SS 145:  Geeking Out About Sex With Kate McCombs, Founder of Sex Geekdom

SS 145: Geeking Out About Sex With Kate McCombs, Founder of Sex Geekdom

Sex is awesome. We’re all on board with that, right? Beyond the act, er, acts, for many of us (in fact I’d wager a large percentage of our listeners) getting information about sex carries with it its ...

29 Jan 201459min

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