SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must climb to be successful, In discussing how to raise everyone's game we focused on the fact that many single cis straight men ruin it for everyone as they're everywhere and generally not well behaved. In describing them we used a phrase coined by Madeleine Holden to describe it: "Dick is Abundant & Low Value". Alana Massey expanded on that thought and wrote The Dickonomics of Tinder, a comprehensive treatise on the low expectations game,

Bex Caputo joins Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas to discuss how the phrase came into use, why it's useful, and the implications of its use.

While we spoke, we mentioned Billy Procida by reputation. Dylan decided to mention him by name and reference both his blog, "You're Not An Ally, You're An Asshole" and a Storify of people who've been negatively affected by interactions.

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SS 113: CatalystCon East Decompression - Sexy Parties, Porn Stars, and Prostate Orgasms!

SS 113: CatalystCon East Decompression - Sexy Parties, Porn Stars, and Prostate Orgasms!

We all had unique experiences at CatalystCon East, we met different people, attended different sessions, sucked different cocks, cuddled with different people, met with various porn stars, and created...

11 Apr 20131h 8min

SS 112: CatalystCon East Decompression - From Boy Kissing to Blanket Forts

SS 112: CatalystCon East Decompression - From Boy Kissing to Blanket Forts

We all had unique experiences at CatalystCon East, we met different people, attended different sessions, kissed different boys, assembled different blanket forts, and... occasionally we all got in the...

5 Apr 20131h 10min

SS 111: In Bed With the Swingset II - Recorded Live at CatalystCon East

SS 111: In Bed With the Swingset II - Recorded Live at CatalystCon East

Cooper, Ginger, Shira, Dylan, Miko, Ophilia, and The Professor (tm) all get in one hotel room before their CatalystCon East session, hop on a couple beds, drink some wine, and have a casual conversati...

1 Apr 20131h 32min

SS 110: Sex With Benefits: Progressive Swinging, Recorded Live at CatalystCon East!

SS 110: Sex With Benefits: Progressive Swinging, Recorded Live at CatalystCon East!

We attended CatalystCon East last week. CatalystCon, as described by Dee Dennis the founder and creator, is a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. It is about reach...

25 Mar 20131h 12min

SS 109: Reflections on Swingset Kinkery

SS 109: Reflections on Swingset Kinkery

We brought Miko Technogeisha on for a discussion on our own personal kinks, and... ended up derailed when Dylan inevitably decided to use Ginger's bedroom habits for his own personal scene. Upon attem...

20 Mar 20131h

SS Special - Cooper's Mea Culpa

SS Special - Cooper's Mea Culpa

My name is Cooper Beckett, and I am a loudmouth. I'm extremely opinionated, and I use my little podcast as a soap box for my opinions. I'm also a snarky bastard, who enjoys giving shit to all. Just as...

13 Mar 20134min

SS 108: Gang-Bang the Mailbag 7 - Politics, Time, Consent, & Swinging

SS 108: Gang-Bang the Mailbag 7 - Politics, Time, Consent, & Swinging

We're taking another dip into the calm waters of the lake of reader submitted questions for our seventh Gang-Bang the MailBag episode! After what seems like thirty minutes of business and random thoug...

5 Mar 20131h 18min

SS 107: Parenting & Non-Monogamy: Sex Positive Parenting Continued with Guest Airial Clark

SS 107: Parenting & Non-Monogamy: Sex Positive Parenting Continued with Guest Airial Clark

Many of us in the lifestyle are parents and can sometimes feel alone when addressing issues regarding child development and age-appropriate ways of discussing sexuality. Airial Clark wowed us so much ...

25 Feb 20131h 3min

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