SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must climb to be successful, In discussing how to raise everyone's game we focused on the fact that many single cis straight men ruin it for everyone as they're everywhere and generally not well behaved. In describing them we used a phrase coined by Madeleine Holden to describe it: "Dick is Abundant & Low Value". Alana Massey expanded on that thought and wrote The Dickonomics of Tinder, a comprehensive treatise on the low expectations game,

Bex Caputo joins Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas to discuss how the phrase came into use, why it's useful, and the implications of its use.

While we spoke, we mentioned Billy Procida by reputation. Dylan decided to mention him by name and reference both his blog, "You're Not An Ally, You're An Asshole" and a Storify of people who've been negatively affected by interactions.

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SS 067: Newly Non-Monogamous - Do We Like New Swingers & Polyamorists?

SS 067: Newly Non-Monogamous - Do We Like New Swingers & Polyamorists?

After a detour involving Prof Stephen Hawking's time spent at a sex club, we discuss new swingers, polyamorists, and non-monogamists. Cooper and Dylan both profess their affection with newbies, while ...

19 Mar 201258min

SS 066: Chemistry - Connections, Pheromones, & Animal Attraction in Non-Monogamy

SS 066: Chemistry - Connections, Pheromones, & Animal Attraction in Non-Monogamy

Dylan launches a custom sexy talk service. We discuss the ethics and reasoning behind wanting or not wanting to date someone you're mentoring. Cooper and Dylan both want to fuck all their friends. We ...

5 Mar 20121h 10min

SS 065: Friends & Lovers - Do We Want To Be Friends With These People We Fuck?

SS 065: Friends & Lovers - Do We Want To Be Friends With These People We Fuck?

JV Altharas and Shara from Ending The Sexual Dark Age join us to discuss the dichotomy of being friends with your swinging playmates, and how we feel that enhances the value of the sex, but also how t...

27 Feb 20121h 14min

SS 064: Kink-O-Rama - Pegging, Voyeurism, Sapiosexuals, & Comfort

SS 064: Kink-O-Rama - Pegging, Voyeurism, Sapiosexuals, & Comfort

We cold open with Cooper having a butt plug (hand crafted by Boris at BnDpodcast.com) inserted by Marilyn, then lead into a discussion of our kinks kicked off by a listener voicemail request. We round...

18 Feb 20121h 10min

SS 063: Swinging For Dummies IV - Relationships, Websites, & Sexy Vacations

SS 063: Swinging For Dummies IV - Relationships, Websites, & Sexy Vacations

We wrap up our "Swinging For Dummies" primer for the swinging lifestyle with the future. We discuss the types of relationships you might want to have with your swinging playmates, how to discuss that ...

7 Feb 20121h 2min

SS 062: Swinging For Dummies III – Rules & Group Sex

SS 062: Swinging For Dummies III – Rules & Group Sex

We squick Dylan out with talk of dragon sex. Dylan vindicates himself with a listener voicemail about post vasectomy emptiness, then discusses his gigantic balls. Once we establish that Shira is the D...

30 Jan 20121h 7min

SS 061: Swinky - A Very BDSM Show Length Business

SS 061: Swinky - A Very BDSM Show Length Business

The Swingset crew gets quickly sidetracked by business that rapidly consumes the show. Dylan wants to be a Dom, Shira is enjoying being submissive. Cooper assigns the listeners the quest for a high qu...

23 Jan 201242min

SS 060: Swinging For Dummies II - Talking To Your Partner About Non-Monogamy

SS 060: Swinging For Dummies II - Talking To Your Partner About Non-Monogamy

We continue our "Swinging For Dummies" discussion by moving into how to talk to your partner about your interest in non-monogamy. We weigh the idea of non-monogamy being a "deal-breaker" for your rela...

16 Jan 201254min

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