SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

SS 303: Low Value Dick and Accessible Messaging

We've answered the same question a lot lately: How do single men navigate the lifestyle? We've rightfully mentioned the mountain most single men must climb to be successful, In discussing how to raise everyone's game we focused on the fact that many single cis straight men ruin it for everyone as they're everywhere and generally not well behaved. In describing them we used a phrase coined by Madeleine Holden to describe it: "Dick is Abundant & Low Value". Alana Massey expanded on that thought and wrote The Dickonomics of Tinder, a comprehensive treatise on the low expectations game,

Bex Caputo joins Dirty Lola, Mike Joseph, Mister Pent, and Dylan Thomas to discuss how the phrase came into use, why it's useful, and the implications of its use.

While we spoke, we mentioned Billy Procida by reputation. Dylan decided to mention him by name and reference both his blog, "You're Not An Ally, You're An Asshole" and a Storify of people who've been negatively affected by interactions.

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SS 013: Threesomes, Foursomes, & Moresomes – Number Dynamics

SS 013: Threesomes, Foursomes, & Moresomes – Number Dynamics

In Ep 13, we discuss number dynamics in swing environments, from threesomes, to foursomes, to orgies. Sasha extols the virtues of odd numbers and the big pile, and Dylan discusses the house he wants t...

22 Aug 201037min

SS 012: Under Pressure – Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Pressure For Swingers

SS 012: Under Pressure – Erectile Dysfunction and Performance Pressure For Swingers

In Ep 12 we talk about pressure, and how pressuring encounters can be as swingers. The first half of our show focuses primarily on male pressure to perform and erectile dysfunction, in the back half w...

15 Aug 201043min

SS 011: Bediquette – In Bed With Swingers

SS 011: Bediquette – In Bed With Swingers

In Ep 11, we discuss the ins and outs of bediquette when it comes to bringing other sexy folk into your bedroom for playtime. We also introduce the newest member of the Swingset family, Ginger!

1 Aug 201052min

SS Special – Sex Is Fun Interviews The Swingset

SS Special – Sex Is Fun Interviews The Swingset

Sex Is Fun, the best sex podcast out there, interviews Dylan and Cooper to discuss swinging in a very enjoyable interview. Check it out!

24 Jul 20101h 9min

SS 010: It's Naked Time with a Live Nude Cast

SS 010: It's Naked Time with a Live Nude Cast

In Episode 10 of Life on the Swingset the cast is naked! Not that it matters, because you can't see them. But just think of their sexy naked bodies....This episode is about being naked and all that go...

18 Jul 201042min

SS 009: Ins and Outs of Swinger Parties

SS 009: Ins and Outs of Swinger Parties

In Episode 9 of Life on the Swingset, we discuss attending a swinger party, Kylie admits her nervousness about them and asks questions, and Sasha proves herself to be a swing party guru and gives her ...

4 Jul 201034min

SS 008: Looking For Fun & Friends on Swinger Websites

SS 008: Looking For Fun & Friends on Swinger Websites

In Episode 8 of Life on the Swingset, we discuss three major swinger dating websites, Adult Friend Finder, Swing Lifestyle, and our personal favorite, and Lifestyle Lounge. We discuss how to decide wh...

21 Jun 201042min

SS 007: Swinging Couples, Taking One For The Team, & Erectile Dysfunction

SS 007: Swinging Couples, Taking One For The Team, & Erectile Dysfunction

In Episode 7, we discuss the difficulties inherent in finding a four way connection between two couples, how taking one for the team and playing with someone you're not interested in can do more harm ...

7 Jun 201036min

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